Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille,
I prefer to wear panties most of the time. When able, I prefer a camel toe gaff with tight shorts or yoga pants.
I like to wear a bra as often as possible under nearly all clothes. Unfortunately, there aren’t tons of choices in 40-42 AA-A.
“ben”…I am a Natural 46B/46C Bra wearer…I get most of my Bras from Amazon and JCPenney…Good luck on finding your size.
I love nothing better than slipping into lace knickers, suspenders and seamed stockings. They make me feel so gorgeous
If you like garters & stockings, get several prs from GIO, from Amazon or from from Secrets in Lace in Richmond VA. You ‘ ll think you died & awoke in heaven.
Tell us how you love them.
I ALWAYS WEAR 100 % NYLONS.
OMG I LOVE Secrets in Lace. I have bought several outfits from them. There stockings are to die for. I LOVE the feeling of fine nylon against my bare legs. Most of my stockings come from Secrets in Lace. Just a wonderful company to deal with. Tranny friendly as well.
I am looking for some bridal lingerie and am having trouble finding some feminine stuff made for a man’s body. Can you recommend anything?
“David”…I get most of my Lingerie (Bras and Panties) from JCPenney and Amazon.
I love satin gowns and robes. Sexy panties and bras. Garter belts and stockings. I wear them as often as possible
Lucille, I love your lingerie tips. I only need a few more items to match all of your suggestions!
xxJan
Good learn to me become feminine
Tips to crossy
i finally ordered my breast forms yesterday now if i can get them before my wife gets them im looking forward to wearing them it will finally make me feel complete