Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I just found this most interesting site. As a lingerie crossdresser, I’m always looking for new ideas and people like me who love being feminine. My favorite articles of clothing are bras, panties, camis, babydolls and chemises. I hope no one will think me weird, but as a 70-year-old, I still love to dress in the youngest and sexiest things possible. As I’m writing this, I’m wearing nothing but a pair of my favorite things, Vanity Fair’s Illumination G-string panties. I could never describe fully how thrilling it is for me when I slip into a short, see-through babydoll with a matching, tiny G-string panty. I simply love being my feminine self whenever I can, and love all the things that help me be who I really am. Also, I just have to say that I try to be respectful of my femininity by keeping myself shaved at all times, and keeping myself as slim as possible for the best figure I can attain when wearing my lingerie. I’ve never wanted to be just a “dick in panties,” and hate it when I see images of such when I’m searching the internet.
I’m not particularly fond of bras but I will occasionally wear them. I was more interested in wearing them before I began hormones. Now I just want to be comfortable. I also find gaffs sooo uncomfortable. They “drive me nuts” and between the cheeks scream for relief. If you relate, check out non-tuck panties from Leolines. I love them. Padded panties are comfortable too. I had a pair that had both hip and bootie. It had foam inserts.
Hi Morgan, I love sexy lingerie but I don’t think it looks good on me (no HRT).I do have babydoll nighties that I enjoy and a large selection of VS bras most with matching bikini panties that fit well and are comfortable. Never tried a gaff and don’t plan to either. Nice pic!
Thank you dear for your advice. I’m very new to cd. I just kind of started and I love the way it makes me feel. I’ve also decided I’m going to seek out a relationship with a ts because I can have the best of both worlds.
The most glamorous is when it’s the most simple Awesome Babe❤️
I have crossed since 12, now over 50 years later I still enjoy feeling the girl in me by wearing all types of lingerie. I look better than most cis woman my age!
I have worn lingerie for last 40 years, my stepsister starting dressing me when I was 13. My wife now shops for me.
I haven’t came all the way out yet. Kinda scared to make that final leap. But I’m ok with that for now. I’m enjoying myself throughout this process. Gathering outfits & mastering my femme self image. What do you think so far?
You are amazingly beautiful!
At the early stages of your femininity I think your going fine Best of Luck Don’t give up Honey ❤️
I love to wear lingerie I have a lot of slips nylon panties and vintage nighties long and short they feel so soft when I wearing them I love it
Actually, I’m a closet cross dresser. But recently I got a doctor’s
permission to wear at least one item of lingerie. After a third surgery
on my right side, he suggested I wear a panty girdle for added
support. Little did he know I would be wearing panties, nylons and
a bra with the girdle!
so am I and I want to come out I love nylons
My favorite type of lingerie is BRAS! Now that I am developing boobs of my own: 38B-cup grown naturally using phytoestrogenic plant supplements and a breast pump (and the girls r filling out nicely) I find that the bra is the most feminine piece of lingerie I can wear cuz breasts r the signature and most obvious sign of being a Female. Lets face it, a girls breasts r one of the first things noticed and evaluated on a girl, by not only males, but by other females as well. And BIG breasts r a sexual attraction to both males n females as well. So by not only wearing a bra, but filling one out with my OWN very noticable and obvious BOOBS, takes me out of “wanting” to appear feminine, and places me in the same catagory as a Female and that is by having boobs, wearing revealing and cleavage enhancing BRAS, and now I’m not crossdressing, but actually wearing proper articles of clothing that r mandated by the FACT i possess the anatomy that requires that special and uniquely feminine article of clothing that is necessitated by that most obvious of female anatomy: Boobs which require bras for proper support and r one more thing that is part of “passing” as a Female and they r for all to see, my growing breasts, highlighted and showcased by that most female of attires: a Bra. The step that is the point of non-male, no going back to going bare-chested, cuz when I bare my chest now, boobs r glaringly obvious to all that I have a Female’s chest now and not a males anymore. I love my boobs and that I can fill out the one piece of obvious feminine attire, a bra, with boobs not breast forms or tissue, but real, live female anatomy, my OWN breasts!
Would love to know exactly what you used as a supplement and the breast pump. Appreciate the info…..Your girls look great!
ive been dressing since I was a teen and I gotta tell ya the feeling of being a woman gets stronger each day im still closeted but im really starting to want to show the world me
you go girl
My goodness Honey let’s see……………….Voluptuous is all I can say! Mmmmmmm❤️❤️