Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love to share my pictures with you ladies ; and most of all , reading your comments about them .
kisses to you all
Hi and thanks so much for your insights into femininity… I hve always liked a satin teddy with lace trim, for lounging in the evenings or even to bed….and a nice pantygirdle for getting bulges minimised under daywear.
Lots of love and hugs
Robyn
I love the Nubra and pushup bras pretty much every day. Thong panties a must….feel so comfy. Ive gone to thigh highs with built in garters for my skirts. And while not lingerie i do love love the ruched yoga pants. A quick update after hrt for past two years im finally being addressed as ms, ma’am “i can i help you ladies” when put shopping with friends!! Yeah. Been a long time coming. Ive never been so happy. And it all started years ago with a string desire/need and Lucille. Thank you so much. Lia
Sorry for typos. It was late when i wrote this. Butt all is good. KissesLia
I love these posts!!!! We alway need a reminder.
J’aime être une fille ,je m’habille en fille avec soutif , gaine culotte agrémenté d’une serviette hygienique ,collant, jupe, chemisier, veste blazer, Jaime sortir comme cela, avec un maquillage leger, je sors dans la rue ,personne ne se retourne sur moi car ils me voient comme un fille et j’en suis heureuse J’aimerais trouver un ami(e) avec qui je pourrait sortir….
I really love wearing corsets and black fishnet tights
Hi all.This is my typical choice of underwear.I am so much a stockings and suspender gurl.I hope you like!!!,Hugs,Paula,XXX
I really enjoy wearing thigh high hose with a garter. Just wish it wouldn’t take me so long to get it fastened! lol
Kelli, You are one cute gurl!!! I too like thigh high hose and garters and a pretty pair of panties. Would love to meet you. You are so very fortunate to have such a BFF.
Buy better quality strap fasteners..the metal ones. They’re MUCH easier
BTW, I am the dark brunette on the left. The blonde woman is my BFF. She started and is continuing to help me on my journey to become the woman I truly am. 🙂
Hi Kelli, we’ve chatted before and you are a lovely lady
You are lucky to have a friend like her
You are so blessed to have a friend like that.