Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love wearing my shaping camisole everyday at work or at home ..everywhere. I stay away from the frilly ones for work so nothing shows. And always my girl panties and tights stockings or leggins
hugs all
Michele
I love to wear the vibrant colors and as sheer as I can get away with. Sheer black hose with my blue mini dress (and I mean mini) that is split to my naval is my favorite (especially if I don’t wear a bra). Let me tell you, you can almost hear the eyes pop!!!
“jim”…I always wear my Bras and Panties…You sound like “One Sexy Girl”.
Hi Lucille,
I do have plenty of mostly black lingerie.Yes this does have a way of helping me to feel very Fem. Love it so much.Thanks again all that you do for us girls.
Love Adrienne
Don’t worry about being tall, if you are solid-try to loose
some weight,but don’t panic.
I am 5’10, about 13 stone, I use 16B bras & size 18 knickers.
i love to wear bras and pantyhose because it makes me feel like a real women plus when a wear a nightie i love wearing my satin robe……
I love bras and pantyhose . I underdress everyday going at work wearing pantyhose lace panties and the matching black lace bra. Then conceiler a little mascara.Mmm feel so feminine taking the bus to work ..
Hi LUCILLE can you guide me on which greast forms are best or most suiteable james
Hi James,
This is Jennie, Lucille’s Director of Customer Care.
If you email me directly at info@feminizationsecrets.com – I will be happy to help!
what about us big guys that are trying to change? i wear a size 11 shoe and am 6 ft tall? very masculine looking! i feel terible!
I know how you feel, i am just over 6ft, size 10/11 shoe and 28st but love to dress fem. its difficult to find clothes in a size 30/32 but i have some and enjoy my time as Lesley.
crossdresser.com has great clothes designed for a mans form