Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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I now have 8 bras and enjoy wearing them whenever I can. I love the feeling of my male breasts being held by the delicate fabric of my different bras. I have been massaging my breasts and definitely see them beginning to respond. Thank you for all your guidance, this site is such an excellent resource.
Hugs,
Salina
Salina…Male Breasts are “A Blessing” for me, I need and want to wear my Bra (Natural 46B/C). I “Never Hide” my Bra wearing !!!
“Salina”…Don’t be afraid to be yourself…If you love to wear your Bra and have nice sized 44A/B Breasts like you do…Just don’t hide it…I LOVE WEARING MY BRAS WITH MATCHING PANTIES !!! Paula
I wish I was as bold as you. I typically keep my bra hidden. But I love the feel of it hugging my breasts. I’m a 44A/B
Just remember girls that different bra manufacturers size differently,They are close but you do have to experiment and the Best part about bra shopping is that you get to try on all different ones until you find the right fit. And remember the most important rule of bra shopping,BUY THE MATCHING PANTY. I cant stress that enough.
After reading most of the comments on bras I noticed that most of the girls went out and found places that gave fittings.
I haven’t ever considered doing this but after reading these comments I’m going to look for a store that I can be fitted in.
I’ve always thought that maybe.the bra I’m wearing really didn’t fit me.
I think that having a professional fit me for the right bra is something that I should try.
I’ll let you know after I get someone to fit me and how it helps me to have a bra that fits like it should
Thank you for this post
Sincerely
Janine
I love my bra…i use water filled condoms. It looks really soft with a bra.
I love my bra… I can’t tell you the excitement I feel when wearing it. Imagine my surprise one morning when I noticed that it was full and tight. That’s when I knew I had arrived! I especially like the lace bras that show through my blouses.
While I use silicon fillers when wearing a bra while dressed I would like to wear a bra occasionally when not dressed (no fillets required) where would I find a male friendly fitting service.
Xdress.com has some nice lingerie made specifically for cis-male bodies. Very nice people, as well.
“Tommie”…I love looking at “Cis-Males” wearing Lingerie…I love to wear my Bras and Matching Panties…Of course, don’t forget you Nylons.
I am really looking forward to my first bra. I want to be a real girl!
Dakota…Once you start buying Bras, you will never stop !!! I just bought 2 more Bras “White and Beige” (from Amazom.com), I now have over 50 Bras in my collection !!!
I since learned. But but now? I’ve grown from an A cup to a B cup and still growing
i really getting help how to find right bra for me thank u