Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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I just had a fitting at Victoria’s Secrets! I went there en femme and had no problem. I thought I was a 42C and found out my size was a 40C! So much more comfortable! I love wearing my bras. Here I am yesterday at the mall. What do you think for a 73 year old?
Wow, what a hot Grannie!
You look super Honey.
I too am into my 8th decade and have decided to not worry what anyone else thinks, “Girls just gotta have fun!”
SUZ…YOU ARE LOOKING SO 60YEARS OLD!!
I am 72 and appreciate your look.
Would like more pictures in other outfits. Where are you located?
I am in Puget Sound area.
ENJOY Being You!!
T.J. pics for your evaluation…
Hi again TJ! I forgot to mention that I think you look great too! Very passable as a woman. So much fun being a girl!
Hi TJ! Thanks for the complements! I’m retired now and pretty much live my life now 24/7 as a woman. I am pretty lucky, I’m 5’6” and 160 lbs. I seem to be accepted as a woman wherever I go. I love it. I live in Michigan. Here I am the other day in my shopping clothes at Macy’s!
I knew after about 4 months useing Lucille’s flat to femme course that I should start looking into buying myself some Bra’s because wow I sure did start growing.I have bought around 50 Bra’s so far I even bought some in bigger sizes because I just keep growing .I was a 32B now I’m all the way to 36C.And yes I’m a believer in buying in as many styles and pretty colors as possible because I love everything about them.I don’t know if it’s the correct way or not but it seems to be working for me is whenever aI wash mine I hook it up then I put it in a Bra washing bag to wash and they seem to be fine if I do it that way
I love wearing a bra, indeed, I need to now my breasts have developed….thanks for the tips…
Thanks for the tips on wearing a bra. I am a 38c and just love showing off my cleavage
“Hi Paula”…LOVE THAT NAME…I have to agree with you…”Wearing My Bra” is to greatest thing about “Crossdressing !!!
As always Lucille, thank you for the tips!! But, you left out tip number One regarding bras! Wear One as often as you possibly can! They are so amazing!
Happy Feminine New Year everone!
I feel so comfortable in my bra and panties I am b cup wanna get up to c and get my butt in shape
“Rockie”…I’ll bet you look “Hot and Sexy” wearing your Bras and Panties…Do you enjoy wearing Nylons like I do ???
I always look for a sexy push-up bra or padded one and bikini panties make me so sexy
Paula yes I love nylons too they r so comfortable
I voted for one because that’s all I can get away with. It’s not even the right size! My parents hate that I wish I was a girl and would disown me if they found out about it! (Disown is probably an over exaggeration but a punishment close to that would occur.)
“Ryan”…Sweetie, Just keep on wearing your Bras and Panties like I do…I have always hoped that I could be a “Real Woman”…It took some time, but now I can “Crossdress” anytime that I need to be the Woman that I want to be…If you want to talk, I’m at…”pzcapman@gmail.com”…Would Love To Hear From You.
my first time crossdreccer and git out to tge puplic
what u saying about the outfits . heels. legs. hair ?
You look great, happy you went out be bold. Live your feminine life the way you want don’t be intimidated by looks you may have admirers and don’t know it. And love your hair I ordered a wig yesterday, hoping for the best. Love Katy♡♡♡♡
Remze, you look FABULOUS dahling!
You look amazing