Being a girl comes with some pretty great perks… high heels, lipstick, lingerie, and let’s not forget – BRAS!
Bras offer endless options for expressing your femininity. And that’s where things can get tricky! With so many sizes and styles to choose from, it’s easy to go wrong.
Do you know what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to bras for crossdressers and MTF trans women? Here are 6 do’s and don’ts of wearing a bra!
1. DO Wear The Right Size
Did you know that there’s an 80% chance you’re wearing the wrong size bra? A bra that doesn’t fit right is uncomfortable and unflattering – and who needs that?
Bra sizing is complicated, so I suggest getting professionally fitted if at all possible. (Many shops are happy to provide this service to their transgender and crossdresser clientele.)
If you prefer to do it yourself, check out my previous article on how to find your MTF bra size.
2. DON’T Let Back Bulge Ruin Your Look
One of the dreaded side effects of wearing a bra is back bulge. This is especially common if you carry extra weight in your upper body. Here are 3 tips for minimizing back bulge:
- Wear a larger band size. A band that’s too tight will cause bulging, so go up a size. For example, from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Look for a bra with extra stretch. Bras made with smooth, stretchy fabrics don’t dig in as much as stiffer bras.
- Try a longline bra. Longline bras have a wider band that extends down the torso to help eliminate back bulge.
3. DO Choose The Right Style
While choosing the right bra size is important, so too is the style. The options are nearly endless! Some of the style details to consider include:
- Padded vs. unpadded
- Underwire vs. wireless
- Cut of the bra cups (low cut, full cut, balconette, etc.)
- Front clasp vs. back clasp
- Straps (strapless, racerback, convertible, etc.)
- Fabric (cotton, satin, lace, etc.)
- Color
Which style is best depends on what you’ll be wearing, as well as your natural breast shape and body type.
For a breakdown of suitable styles, see my article on the Top 7 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own.
4. DON’T Be Boring
While you should definitely own some basic bras, why stop there?
Bras offer endless options for expressing your style, so have fun and experiment with different colors, fabrics, and trimmings! (Just be careful what you wear them with as frilly details can show through clothes.)
5. DON’T Ruin Your Bra In The Wash
Bras are delicate objects, so they need to be properly cared for. You shouldn’t simply toss your bra in the wash with the rest of your clothes. Here are some tips to ensure that your bra stays in good shape for as long as possible:
- Hand wash your bra if possible. This is the best way to extend the life of your bra.
- Use a bra wash bag. This keeps the hooks from snagging and prevents your bra from getting tangled in the washing machine.
- Air dry your bra. Bras should never be put in the dryer, so hang them to dry instead.
6. DO Replace Your Bra When It’s Time
You take care of your bra, it should last a good while. However, keep in mind that bras do have a limited life span. (Expect an average of 6-12 months if you wear it regularly.)
Here are signs that your bra needs to be replaced:
- The bra straps are stretched out.
- The bra no longer fits as well as it used to.
- The bra has lost its shape.
- The bra feels uncomfortable.
Bras! We just can’t get enough
Now that we’ve got the dos and don’ts worked out, the only thing left to do is enjoy your beautiful bra… And maybe go out and buy some new ones!
Since a girl can never have too many bras, I’d love to know…
How many bras do you own? Are you a basic one-bra kinda gal? Or do you have a bra to match your every mood?
Take my poll and tell me about your favorite bra below!
Love,
Lucille
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Many cis women say that they do not wear a bra to go to bed. I have heard of young cis girls having to wear a training bra even when going to sleep. I so far have gone to sleep routinely without wearing a bra.
Beautiful !
The right Bra is most definitely a ‘PLUS’ when dressed! I LOVE the look of my ‘boobs’ (and so does my Mrs. !)
I have all kinds of bras that go with every out fit over 50 of them
Billy…I love men who likes to wear “HIS BRA” !!!
Thank you very much
hi Lucille,
good advice as always. i love my bras, there is nothing that makes me feel feminine like choosing a beautiful color and style and putting it on in the morning – even if i have to dress as a guy during the day!
my favorite type by far is an underwire design, and a demi style if i can get one. my breasts aren’t that large and the underwire keeps me from slipping out of the cup during most everyday movements. and the demi style is just because i looks pretty. most often i buy unpadded bras, and then if i am dressing up, i’ll use some silicone breast forms. works well and lets me wear a bra regardless if i have to be a guy, or get to be a girl! Chantelle is my favorite designer, all their creations seem to fit me perfectly.
the exceptions to wearing an underwire bra are sports bras for exercise, and for bedtime wear i like a soft leisure bra like what Rhonda Shear makes.
thanks so much for your support and encouragement! xoxoxo
jamie
I have many bras – front close, back close, sport bras. But my favorites are my lace bralettes I lounge around in in the evening.
What you say about not putting them in the dryer … definitely true! I ruined two of my favorite bralettes when I wasn’t thinking and I did that. 🙁 I remember now!
Usually a bra for the mood I am in. special bra for nights on the town.
“Michael”…I also have my “Special Bras” when I want to show off “My 46B/46C-Cup Breasts”…Bra wearing is so great.
Wow !!! I only have 34B
Yes it Is !!! Love my bras !!!
Usually a bra for the mood I am in and a special bra for a night out .
You all look really hot no matter what you wear hot clothes is just the icing on the cake yummy!