Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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I love my bras and could not imagine a day not wearing them. Feels so natural to put on every day. I have several that are unlined wired bras and they show off well. I have several push up bras that give me some boost and show more when I want it. Than I have my bras that are just normal lined bras that give me a good definition. I get a few looks here and there as I wear them under my male clothes but I don’t care
“Jennifer”…I wear my Bras and get “Looks”…I no longer care either. Love, Paula
Such a well written article. Very useful information here. The only thing I don’t like is the price of that Prima Donna bra. Who would honestly pay $135 for a bra?
I hear you Sister! No way am I handing over $135 for a bra unless it has boobs already in it! Lol
A thrilling article as well as very interesting reading, Lucille. My complaint though is that you missed one bra, that is the bullet bra or cone bra. It is of interest to us old ladies who grew up when they were in vogue. Made in cotton, they required more care and had to be ironed after washing to keep adorable. I wore my aunt’s freshly laundered white bras and they fit perfectly. The straps were. fitted to the top of the cups, which stopped them slipping off the shoulder, and were also adjusted in front which allowed one to alter them in public! Wide necklines would always show the straps though, which was rather frowned on in those days. A second feature was that the cups held a filler very well, and even genetic woman were known to add a tissue or two to attain lovely pointy boobs. Third was there was a hole between the cups and the elastic bra front panel that was the perfect size to fit a large erection perfectly through, that could lead to some very interesting possibilities. These bras can still be obtained from What Katy Did and Secrets In Lace.
OMG Doreen, I love bullet bras! So retro, sexy, glamorous and feminine! Never knew about the hole in the front! You are so naughty girlfriend! I love it! Just another benefit of being feminine! LoL
Hugs n kisses
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I feel so comfortable and natural in my bras. They say to all who notice me that here is a woman in all aspects. Some do have a slight bulge but they are so pretty and feminine I work at smoothing these as much as possible. As far as my bra showing, I love wearing blouses which give away hint of the joy within. Thus, if there is a bit of show through then that is whom I am.
As we approach the Holiday Season, I rejoice in the woman I present to the world. Perhaps, someday soon, a handsome man will hold me in his arms, feel the supple softness of my breasts against him and be totally attracted to this woman I have become.
Thank you, Lucille, for all your guidance . Love Elizabeth
I think that being held by another one of us girls is just as exciting Elizabeth
“Elizabeth”…I love when a Man hugs me wearing my Bra. Love, Paula
I am so glad to hear from somebody that has the same feelings as I do.I would love to dress in a pretty dress sexy lingerie for a very masculine man that would make me the woman I long to be.Go girl
YOU ARE SO PREETY NO WONDER A MAN CAN HELP HOLDING YOU IN HIS ARMS I AM JEALOUS. GO GIRL
Hi Elizabeth – that’s a great wish you have! Being held by a man as a woman is heavenly! Love it! Here I was the other night on a date night.
“Suzy”…There is nothing in the world better than dating and kissing a sexy Man. Love, Paula
YOU ARE SO FORTUNATE I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A VERY MASCULINE MAN HOLD ME IN HIS STRONG ARMS TREAT ME AS THE WOMAN I SHOULD BE AND MAKE LOVE TO ME
It is hard to find a comfortable bra , thank you for your help !
“Jose”…You are one “Sweet Looking Girl” !!! “Paula”
I am a really full figure bra wearer and I have a hard time finding bras my band size, I just lost fifty pound and my bra band has not decreased. I was wondering if you me and us some enlightenment on how we could decrease our band size so I could fit into some of the most beautiful bras.
I am a 50 band size.
Love to you
Jane
I am fortunate in the fact that I have a very small build , 34B bra , 28 waist 35 hips I started waist training recently trying to get my waistline to about the 26- 25 inch range , I want to look good in a bikini next summer ( not that I dont look too bad in one now )