If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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not bad for a 67 year old
Tina : simply beautiful. …as I am your Elder ” at 71, love your look, girl!
Doing all I can to stay presentable. ..T.J.
Enjoy my pics. . . Comments? ?
you rock that dress Tina you look fab!!!!!
thank you it is getting harder and harder to look good now
Thanks again Lucille. Wonderful topic. I once had this red dress that was curvy, yet modest and it won lots of looks and praise – a real head-turner. It was knee length with a collared top and cap sleeves. I paired it up with red pumps and black hose. Unfortunately, I don’t have it anymore and I’ve been looking for another one like it. I’m not giving up on my search.
When I dress to go out I enjoy dressing slutty and easy.thats just me though
Lucille thank you for the basic guidelines I found them very helpful. It helps to have a more objective idea of how I look in public and not an overestimation of how sexy I think I am! I think how you dress will determine what kind of men approach you.
Thanks, Veronica
I dress to what is good on me that fits my age group but to each his well her own style of what looks good on them I did like these helpful tips gail
These days I like wearing a blazer over a simple tee and jeans. I have corduroy blazers in wine and chocolate brown; and leather blazers in saddle brown and a sage green). At age 65 and spoken for, I do not feel a need to show much skin in public. To each her own!
I love wearing above the knee skirts and some kind of hi heel I’m 60 but feel younger I love your column painting my nails. And wearing lipstick makes me feel more femine
Sorry – need honest opinion. How do I look? One is last years pool wear and the other is just everyday clothes. Im not too flashy as you can tell. :/
Looking Good!