If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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So I’m not supposed to be a characeture? [sic] 😉
Thanks Lucille. I find with fashion a little common sense goes a long way. I have to admit that it takes me a long time in the morning to find the right outfit for the day. I guess it depends on how I feel. If I am having trouble deciding, I always rely on a dress. I feel so free when I’m wearing a summer dress.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart Lucille for all you have done for this girl.
Love
Marnie
I think of the glamorous look, rather than “sexy” (no, not that more recent thing, “glam”). A little more covered and a lot more classy.
I always check with my wife before going out dressed. On occasions she has sent me back to change, including changing my whole outfit. Sometimes it can be very daunting, changing from dressing as a man to dressing as a beautiful women.
I just love being as fem and girlie as I can possibly be…..frosty pink lipstick and cute lace pretty pink panties are a must…..taupe and leopard and anything very sheer is a plus if you want to ulta sexy and fem I think….kisses….sabrina
You 3 girls look great.Yes look around the stores.Dont over do it girls.Most woman in wallmart are in sweat pants.lol I go in JcPenneys a lot. Maceys too. Look together .not a streetwalker.take care all.Sarah
This picture didn’t make it the first time.
Any suggestions to minimize large shoulders ? I recently purchased Dress Tech Silicone hip pads, they are awesome, the are the best I’ve seen so far, the are long and wide, and are tapered, the fit under pantyhose, preferable Spanks. The look is perfect and natural looking, but ever with those I’m still not balanced with my upper body. I’m going to try and lose some more weight. I’m still a Plus size gal ! Thanks for all your tips and programs, they are really great.