If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Thanks for the latest tips,Lucille. I think I have been wearing my skirts a bit too short for my age LOL
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Hi Lucille, thanks for your advice and guidance. You and your team are awesome.
Excellent tips with demonstrative photo examples. I have seen these type errors made time and again among t-gurls. A great lesson we should take to heart.
I’m a transgendered woman in my early forties although I’ve already removed all short skirts and really high heels from my wardrobe loved the article gave me some really nice tips on mixing and matching in a classy and feminine manner which is definitely the look I am striving for. Thank you Lucille keep it up
OMG this article is so spot on. I LOVE to dress sexy but as I have began transitioning and am living as a woman more in public I suddenly found my wardrobe obsolete. I had so many short, sexy night clothes with nothing for everyday wear. I had to star rethinking my wardrobe and shopping. Once you geta handle on it there are so many ways to be sexy at work…it is fun. The biggest thing were my shoes. No woman wears 5″ heels to work……although I would live to.
Carla V : Gorgeous, simply gorgeous. Love everything about your look. At 71 yrs old, I am trying hard to look attractive, but with an “edge “,such as full fashion, seamed stockings.
Enjoy being You girl!
T.J
Some days ago I managed to dress, after some months.
I wore a white top and a black tight skirt. I felt divine..
It matched perfectly with my black underwear and tights. You can’t imagine how hot I felt and was, as said by my friend’s boyfriend.
I think I look OK, but I do have trouble with my make-up. I’m 77 and it’s hard to hide my manly face.