If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Hello. Thanks for this piece and all your work. My body is slowly developing but my clothing taste remains in the bohemian and conservative categories. My public wardrobe is slowly changing along with my body. Also, I’m 6’1″ @ 165#, on the thin side. Therefore the images you provided of full tops and full or long bottoms seem like they’d be in the running for me. Furthermore I don’t imagine I’ll ever go more than 10% bust showing or with skirts much above my knees. I believe modesty is attractive to those who respect the whole person. Bree O/S, you look great with that floral dress.
new top and cropped pants! love it shopping and sales girls are getting used to me and leading to me to real woman styles which is how I try to dress nothing over the top, girl next door type. xoxo girls ,Lisa D.
My idea of feeling sexy and feminine is wearing beautiful lingerie under my dress or blouse/skirt and not by wearing a mini or a shirt skirt.
I love wearing lacy corsets, garter belts, sheer stockings, pretty panties and beautiful slips and petticoats. All these feminine and sexy clothes I wear under my dress making me feel very sexy and feminine. Nothing compares to this experience.
Jessica : please continue doing what you are doing & SEND MORE PICS PLEASE! !
LOVE YOUR LOOK. T.J.
Enjoy my pics. …
hi Lucille
here is some great pictures of me showing my feminine
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Frankie smales
(Francine slythe)
Hello there My name is Bree I’m a mid 30’s 6ft 5inch tall (without heels) TS-Woman (MtF),who lives 90% of the time as feminine as I can be,as standards of dress in workplace policy and Life allows, with the remainder 10% of the time as Androgynously (neutral between female/male) leaning towards feminine these days as my HRT is really contouring my features well…
Bree,
You look gorgeous! I love the flower print dress… very feminine and looks fantastic on you.
Kisses,
Vanessa
Hi loucille
I love all these stories of want and acceptance
showing deep feelings and attractions of
What is like to be a woman but me myself
That like to do it for fantasy not reality
But slowly succumb to it be a reality
But soon I will be showing my feminine side
Forever is that a good thing.
Frankie smales
Transgender subservient