Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Thanks for all your tips! Stockings (black & tan), bikini and bra, and a dark black wig with makeup all accentuate my appearance and alleviate anxiety about the masculinity I’m still forced to project on occasion, like all the other ladies here, but the advice here is so helpful. I will add ruffled panties to my list, as one of the only things about my body I’m disappointed with are skinny hips (face, shoulders, boobs, hands, butt and legs are fine; height (6’0″) and hips aren’t 🙁 this helps one. I can’t do anything about the other. I encourage any ladies here to look me up on Facebook. I think we should all be friends. I am not ashamed of my femininity. None of us should be.
Cheers to all, Anika
I think joining forces is a great idea! us girls have to stick together!
you look marvelous!
I adore to wear stockings with garters and corset.I feel so feminine and very happy.
Like all of the other gurls. i love sexy panties and a bra. I work as a man but wear silky panties every day with a lace garterbelt and lace top stockings, and of course a matching bra. love Lane Bryant plunge bras.
how can i get my boobs to grow
when you dress like man on your job the people dont see
your chest, yours boobs, dont ask you about it, i would like to do it. saludos
My favorite pieces of lingerie are a pair of silky panties with a matching bra. Along with a very snug corset. It just makes me sit and daydream.
For me the ultimate expression of femininity is a bra …. is the most feminine that exists and not comparable to any male garment … if you join panties and a garter belt stockings with lovely ….
My personal favorite lingerie is a nice colorful bra, matching panties, a nice corset with garters attached to stockings. Colorful bra and panties are playful and sexy and the bra provides great cleavage. The corset helps to provide a feminine figure and the stockings make my legs look great. When I wear lingerie like this, I usually get a lot of positive feedback.
Ms. PattiKay, That is a stunningly, gorgeous corset. Luv the colors and details too! Thanks for sharing your photo Dear.
SissyCrissy………………xoxoxo!!!
Lucille, I feel the sexiest when wearing sexy bra, lacy panty garterbelt,lacetop stockings and heels.
What a knockout! Would love to meet you some day! Take care!
Ms. Erika Renee, you’re very pretty and make your gorgeous lingerie extremely sexy! That is a very sexy pose perched on the stool with your heels too. Thanks for sharing your photo.