Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I enjoy the feel against my skin of all sorts of lingerie in red, fuschia, purple and pink!!
Oh my gosh …my favourite lingerie is a silk teddy with frills around the bust and leg openings. It just makes me feel so sexy and uber feminine. The fabric is amazing and the teddy just helps to outline a much more feminine form ……yipeeeee
Lovies Elaine
I wear bras panties and hose everyday. When feel frisky i wear a lacy garter belt and seamed stocking
Black and red corset, black satin panties, garter belt & red or black stockings.
I have a leather corset, and a lacy one. Love them both!
pink panties and a lace pink corsets
Pink Panties, high heels (with painted toes) & a spaghetti strap silky chemise
bra’s and panties are by far my favorite. I have over 100 bra and panty sets. I love the sets where I can find a matching garter belt to go with it. Just something about a garter belt and stockings that makes me feel extra girly.
I wore my white set with the matching garter belt on my 50th birthday. My birthday gift was 2 hours at David’s Bridals trying on Wedding Dresses. My consultant told me I was more of a girl then she was. I had to chuckle at her for that statement. I did get to walk out of the store with a Beautiful Wedding Dress I can call my own. One of the best birthdays I have ever had.
Thanks for the opportunity to respond on my favorite lingerie. I probably have 15 bras but I only wear 4 and only 2 regularly. The one that I wear most I suppose must be my favorite then. It is a Victorias Secret bralette from the Pimk collection (more of a leopard print) with no padding and it perfectly holds my new breasts which I have been very diligently growing with Lucille’s program of herbs and progesterone for 13 months. I am a size B cup – almost – avd until I can completely fill out my other B cup bras I will continue wearing my bralette which enhances my breasts perfectly.