Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love black lacy bra and panties, together with matching stockings an suspenders.
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This is all well and good for people that are average or over weight. But what about someone that’s underweight?
dear madam!
i love this post, i love my bra and panties, but i can not control grew my body and facial hair?
My Calvin Klein, Barely Naked, add a size padded bra in size 38B fits perfectly and makes me feel very girly. I like to wear it under a tight top to feel sexy or even under a sleep shirt while getting ready for work in the morning. I really hate taking it off to put my guy clothes on.
New to all of this but buying all with helpfully advice from my fabulous friends. Bras and panties makes life worth living. I have several but trully love the purples and light blues. Your past articles have been soo helpful. Need advice on adhesive for breasts. Everything I’ve tried doesn’t work looking for something that will actually make them stay on while wearing a strapless bra. I haven’t seen any advice on this issue, any help would be soo helpful. Thanks sweetie:)
Hi , I find Spirit Gum by Ben Nye works well, be sure to get the Spirit Gum Remover .
kisses Rusty
Hollister Medical spray AND remover works well for many.
Personally I’d like something that lasts about a week, never tried Spirit gum, might investigate.
I like most lingerie. tho, prefer, something along the lines of some sort of top, whether a bra,or teddy, bikini panties, garterbelt and thi-hi stickings. Been into corset training since 1st of year. i have two custom sized corsets which i pretty much wear 24/7. Yes, it’s made a noticible difference in three months. or least i sure think so.
Hello Lucille,
Bras,panties, and pantyhose are my favorites. I enjoy the feeling of wearing these and the how they feel on my skin. I wear pantyhose on those cool nights along the Carolina coast. Thank You Lucille.
William
OMG how can a girl decide…. I love my bras and panties and have some beautiful and sexy nightgowns and baby dolls for those special nights with my BF. But I must say that my go to piece is my kimono robe. It is so silky and comfy when I slip it on I just feel feminine and warm. I can “hang” in it every day. An essential for every girl
Carla
You do have femme taste and look it too
Nice Carla
You just look great!
Thank you sweetie…and makes me feel so sexy
You look so pretty in your komono
Thank you sweetie…and makes me feel so sexy
I love sexy black and red lingeie with panty !
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