Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My personal fav is the corset… lifts the girls on display and carves those curves at the same time. There is a downside though, they tend to inhibit ‘maneuverability’, but that’s not always a bad thing, depending on the company I might have at the time… 😉
Dear Lucille
My favorit item of lingerie is lace trim panties and bra with pretty bows very femmine very girly. I also love wearing lacey topped stockings and suppenders when I have my heels on it makes me feel so sexy and femmine when I am wearing these items under my dress. I feelm very much the woman that i want to be.
I love your tips please keep them coming from a grateful girl thank you.
Dear Lucille,
I always love a tanktop/Camisole and a pair of boyshorts myself. I know it sounds like a Hooters Girl ensemble but to be honest that would have been my dream job had I been a GG. My latest favorite is actually a Wonder Woman set from Walmart. Really brings out my booty.
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Anika
I just love the panties feel. I am a panty slave and cannot buy enough of them. I love to shop in the stores and ask for help from the sales ladies. I feel so fem and sissy and enjoy it very much.
My favorite lingerie? It’s always been a comfy tank and shorts
I loved your article about lingerie. In fact, I purchased one of the bras that you recommended!
It would be awesome if you would do another blog on panties, and where to buy them. And, then, perhaps, another blog on stockings and where to buy them.
Many thanks for all your great advice!!
Dear Lucille,
I am fond of the classical styles of lingerie and white blouses. Lingerie with lovely buttons catches my attention. Cotton and silk are more attractive to me than lace and satin although lace trim can be very nice.
I like as many of my clothes as possible to have fisheye buttons, including the lingerie.