Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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!: The last time I bought bras I had to buy a bigger cup size. I bought a C cup because with my B cup I was getting boob overflow and boob spillage out the top of the cup. I now wear a 38C.
2: I mostly wear baby doll nighties to bed and in front of my husband, he likes me wearing them. But I do have several long floor length negligees that have a leg slit up to my cooch.
3: Most of my bras and panties are black, white or beige (nude) but I do have matching bra and panty sets of lavender and also pink.
4: Sometimes I shave legs, armpits and butt crack and around my cooch if I do not have time to wax. I have an appointment for a Brazilian wax. I have cis women friends that told me a Brazilian does hurt but it is worth it.
nothing like a corset to add some shape and then a matching knicker and bra set with stockings and your best heels xxx
Dear Lucille
My favourite piece of lingerie is my baby doll. (It is an irresistible black sheer nylon babydoll
edged in pink.). Then, I next love my purple balconette bra and panties.
Lucille, you provide highest quality blogs weekly (which have helped my confidence grow leaps and bounds), and I consider this one of the finest.
Best regards. Richard
What makes me feel, super girly and a “Rise” silky sheer panties, slip (sheer in front & see thru but girls it’s part of the Allure, panties with connecting garters ( V S ) Victoria Secrets old fashion panty girdles & open bottom girdles ( now known as “foundation” wear) plus stockings with a seam.
bra and panties, thigh highs w/garter and stilettos!
please give your opinion , do I Look Hot in Feminine Lingerie ?
I absolutely love tan lines
“Carla”…”YOU LOOK AWESOME”…”Great Bras, Stockings and Legs”…I Can Never Look Like That…”I’m A Big Girl”.
I found my color which is pink with my pale skin and blonde hair,the lingerie I chose is perfect!
Wow you look beautiful!!
I love matching lackey bra and panties makes me feel so sexy and feminine with stockings and heels plenty of boys and satin help me feel girly too .