Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I ABSOLUTELY love lingerie, a tight mini skirt, and for me perfume is a must. I remember the first time a Man came over for some play time and he even said “Oh God, you smell so good with your perfume.” So for me perfume is a must when I dress up.
“Tanya”…You are one “Hot, Sexy Girl”…Love your “Legs Nylons and Outfit”…”REAL NICE SEXY REAR”
Thank you Paula! 🙂
What makes me feel feminine is when I mix my lingerie with my boots and Leather, this made me feel ultra feminine, I cant wait to step it up.
Love sexy lace panties and also like silky chemise sets feel so good against freshly shaven skin!
Nice panties..you them well!
I have always loved sheer or not bodysuits. All sheer hosiery options a must.
Hi Lucille, I love all you tips. My favorite lingerie to wear are my satin gowns and robes. I love to wear them almost every day. It makes me feel so feminine
I love wearing lacy bras and sexy panties when I go out on the town. Always makes me feel so feminine! Hear I am at Victoria Secrets getting ready to try on some lingerie a sales lady said I would like! So fun to be a woman!
Hi girls, I m a new be to this. I have a corset, some stockings, 1 bra. I ve just started make up.
Your beautiful and I would date you if I could!
I only have 6 bars n panties!
Hey Joanna thank, Its all in the pose, If you look at woman on the internet and male to female transformations this will help you to become more beautiful than you are now. XXX.
I love hipster panties and how they make me sexy and all fem. I’m a 55 year old crossdresser and I love thigh high stocking and think they are sexy! I have never tried a Babydoll before but I have been think about getting one or 2 to try. I tend to go with white or black or nude . I may try red.