Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite piece of lingerie is without a doubt, a satin slip.
Oh Thankyou Stephanie,that is one of my favorite questions, my favorite pieces of lingerie is my Booty enhancers,they allow great confidence also I enjoy the sensation of beauty.
I so love a pretty bra and panty set. Especially if there is matching lace trim. Basic white is so feminine but I also love pink, baby blue, yellow, black and red. With lace top thigh highs and heels, with breast forms, wig, makeup, earrings, bracelets, rings and a necklace…yummy!
Now I love to go out too. Shopping. Dinner. You name it. To wear those things and top it off with a nice dress that is appropriate to the situation is heaven. To wear ultra sexy lingerie under a dress is to enjoy hiding a secret no one can see! But I know, and later I can enjoy the femininity of it. Taking off the dress to reveal the pretiness underneath, whether I am alone or with someone…its indescribable.
Funny. I am no sissy, either in the general sense that that word gets used or in the specific sense it’s employed in the fetish world. But so-called sissy lingerie has an extraordinary effect on me. Maybe it’s that I try to present as a classy lady, and so this lingerie is a challenge to my reserve and uncovers a meeker more feminine me.
I love wearing my thigh high stay ups with a waist cincher and prima donna panties (all white).there’s absolutely nothing better feeling than high quality material.
Glorious
Add a bra and breast forms and I’m right there with you!
I have a drawer full of panties. I like panties briefs, high waisted, because it has enough fabric to support my manly organs. I buy ones without any lace or ornaments so I can use it in the gym locker room without any hassles. As for my upper part, my natural breasts can fill a B cup…. Unlike panties, I don’t find it comfortable to wear bra on a daily basis, but I do have few bras to get excited of my feminine attire when I’m home. I’m attracted to women, but I am afraid that my crossdressing habits will weaken my masculine energy.
A really neat way to keep those manly parts under control is with bikini bottoms. They are of more sturdy material (you can chose how much), and come in a huge variety of styles and sizes. I like thrift stores for sources; you can try out a whole lot for few $, don’t need to get tops, and just re-donate whatever doesn’t work. Good luck.
Glorious to enjoy the “feminine array of lingerie”
You look wonderful Eileen. Just starting to explore this feminine side myself. Love wearing panties around the house. My wife doesn’t suspect a thing….. as far as I know
Don’t worry about that! My husband is a crossdresser and he loves to feel sexy and feminine, but I love it! You just need to find someone who loves you for you! Because that’s all that matters!
Although I really enjoy lounging about and sleeping in a sexy baby doll, I feel the most feminine when I’m wearing nothing but a bra and panties. I think it’s because of all the images I’ve seen over the years of sexy women in this attire in movies and tv shows. And these days you can’t go five minutes without seeing an ad on television of a woman in her panties and bra. It’s as if this outfit has come to symbolize femininity and sex appeal. So for me, wearing my bras and panties provides me with all the wonderful sensations of femininity that I so obviously crave. I can’t even walk by a mirror or other reflective surface without stopping to admire myself and posing for an instant before I pass by. Seeing myself dressed this way also gives me much pleasure in thinking of the contrast between what most people think me to be and what I truly am!
Hi Sweetie,
I love your post. Although I love getting fully dressed up, there is nothing like a relaxing day staying in a bra and panties and just chilling out. It is a great way to catch up on the girl talk on Femme Secrets which I am doing now.
Love, Irene
Hi Irene,
Yes, Spending a day in panties and a bra is the best way for a gurl to relax. I wish my circumstances allowed me to fully dress. I probably wouldn’t ever want to live any other way. I love feeling and being feminine and use my lingerie to make me feel pretty and sexy. Love you too, sweetheart, Karl
I have so much lingerie, its hard to pick one or two. I will have to go through it all. find something to take a picture in
Definitely a silky full slip, black or white.
I am absolutely with you there Norah. Slips either half or full do the trick for me every time. I have a beautiful new one ordered for Christmas.