Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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my favorites are bras and panties. and i wear them pretty much all the time. along with a garter belt and white stockings, a look that i adore.
I ware lingerie every day, and I like, bra, panties, collants, etc.
I just adore baby dolls with a pair of VS panties. The BD hides flaws and flatters the figure. I feel so últs feminine and girly whenever I slip into this
I love all sorts of lingerie! Nothing makes me feel more feminine than when I have on my sexy babydoll! I am 74, so I hope this is still flattering! What do you think?
Hugs, Suzy
Sexy!!
Wow. Are you really 74? Amazing.
LOVE that look Honey! Shows what us “mature” gurls can do!
XOXOXOXO
Hiya all
I love to wear my satin wire free bra and matching skimpy satin panties. Always makes me feel so right, so femme, so sexy and ready for most occasions. With matching suspenders too. Topped off with some quality flesh coloured, pink, red sexy stockings… red ones are almost too much for me….
I have a babydoll nightie with a French Maid look it is sheer with a little apron, stretchy fabric and feels very sexy. I got it at Yandy.com. I wear it as my ‘ironing outfit’ when I do laundry and iron my wife’s clothes for work. She gets a kick out of my putting it on whenever I iron for her even though the rest of the time she just tolerates my CD desires.
I wear sexy panties under my boring boy clothes at work most days.
Bold,but tasteful without being dull certainly works for me.Babydoll lingerie,lace,colorful bras give so much feminine glow.Add in the freeflowing hair ,refined makeup and accessories to go along with other female traits the female journey goes to higher heights.I like the post because it elevates the feminine journey.Thank you
I shave everyday and use hair don’t grow there to minimize my hair growth but a nice mating bra and panty set is always a must
Lovely Dear, you do know how to take it to the top!
XOXOXOXO