Whether you’re a crossdresser or a MTF transgender woman, wearing lingerie is a great way to connect with your female self.
How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!
In this blog post on transgender / crossdresser lingerie, I share some simple tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best in feminine lingerie. Read on to learn more!
1. Get The Right Fit
Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top.” That’s why it’s so important to choose lingerie that fits properly.
Here are some tips to ensure that you have the right fit:
- Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)
- Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms.
- Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size. I got into depth on how to find your correct bra size in this article.
Having a hard time finding a bra that fits? Try the Flatter Me Bra by Itty Bitty Bra. It’s specially designed for those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions, so it’s ideal for crossdressers and transgender women.
2. Flatter Your Shape
The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws while highlighting your assets. Here are some flattering pieces to consider:
Babydoll lingerie
Ruffled panties
Kimono Robe
- Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly or full midsection.
- Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had more curves? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips and behind.
- Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.
3. Complement Your Skin Tone
Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood), so choose wisely.
The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone:
- White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they tend to make pale skin look even more pasty.
- Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.
Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.
4. Be Impeccable With Your Grooming
Unwanted body hair can definitely distract from a sexy, feminine image. If you’re going to wear lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par.
Here are some tips to consider:
- Shave or wax regularly.
- Exfoliate several times per week to avoid ingrown hair.
- Apply body lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.
What’s your favorite piece of lingerie?
Now I’d love to hear from YOU: Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite is panties and or pantyhose, I love the feel on freshly shaved legs!
good article
Very Nice!!
I think sexy starts with smooth skin. After I shave, everything feels sexy. But I am very hairy, it comes back in two days. I have shaved, used creams…I prefer to shave. What is the best elec. razer since I am not having much luck with the brand I am using.
Thank you
sandy
Well I really don’t want to come off like I have a clue about any of this topic. I know this. I always leave here much smarter than when I came and I never skimp off on the reading. I am going to be 60 come September and I’m loving it. I can’t ever remember a time where I could pass by any sort of lingerie. And garter belts with there sticking straps.. my first one came from my aunt’s box of junk she out out for goidwill.. well we still are the same build. I have a crapton of them now. I’m not there as a fetish I just know what I like and a good many years of figuring out what works for Rikki Darling.. thank you for listening and and such a wanderful place for everyone to come and learn and share. Stay Creative Sissta’s…
Oh I wanna post a picture but hit the sandy thing to soon.. so u took a do-over.. I hope it’s okay? Thank you again..
My favorite piece of lingerie is the lacy slip. I love full slips with lace, but a lacy half slip with matching camisole also feels so good against my skin. I often sleep in a lacy slip or satin chemise every night.
Nothing says feminine more to me than a lovely lacy bra and panties set with a cute little bow in the front. I look in the mirror and feel the feminine rush coming over me
Very Beautiful
This is my favorite piece. A corset like this was one of the first pieces I bought.
Sorry this was the photo.
Hi Lucille:
I’m a mexican new crossdresser reader. Your blog and counsels are trully amazing, thank a lot! I consider that a smoth skin is the key of the beauty of a feminized body, I totally agreed with you. Let me share you a pic that shows my own attempt in hot lingerie.
Double wow from me! I’m so jealous, lol.
WOW!