When you hear the word “ladylike,” what comes to mind?
For me, it’s grace, elegance, and femininity — qualities that many crossdressers and trans women aim for.
But here’s the question: How ladylike are YOU?
Take this fun 10-question transgender / crossdressing quiz to find out!
How ladylike are you?
You are %%PERCENTAGE%% ladylike.
Your answers are highlighted below.
Question 1 |
How do you greet people you know?
With a handshake | |
With a hug | |
With a kiss on the cheek |
Question 2 |
You’re at the bar with friends. What do you order?
Beer | |
Red wine | |
A girly cocktail |
Question 3 |
How sexily do you like to dress in public?
The more skin the better | |
I’m a total tomboy
| |
I like to show off my assets in a tasteful way |
Question 4 |
How often do you swear?
All the time | |
Occasionally | |
Almost never |
Question 5 |
What would you do if you accidentally burped in public?
Get really embarrassed and apologize profusely | |
Laugh and do it again | |
Say "excuse me" and forget about it |
Question 6 |
What do you like to wear to bed?
Pretty lingerie | |
Oversized sweats | |
Cute but comfy pajamas |
Question 7 |
You’re driving to lunch with the girls when somebody cuts you off in traffic. How do you respond?
Start tailgating them | |
Shout out loud and speed away | |
Ignore them and keep going |
Question 8 |
How often do you say “please” and “thank you”?
When I remember to - which isn’t often | |
As much as the average person | |
As often as possible |
Question 9 |
Which of the following shoes best suits your personal style?
Simple, elegant pumps | |
Over-the-knee patent leather stiletto boots | |
Sneakers or casual flats |
Question 10 |
Do you ever smoke or get drunk in public?
Often | |
Occasionally | |
Never |
Once you are finished, click the button below. Any items you have not completed will be marked incorrect.
There are 10 questions to complete.
So, how did you do? (Keep in mind that this quiz is just for fun – so don’t take it too seriously.)
Share your ladylike score below and let me know what you think!
Love,
Lucille
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I was 66% ladylike, 34% crazy and 42% butterscotch ripple.
I also found questions that did not fit me. I don’t drink so a girly drink was the closest (usually coke with grenadine) i had to answering that one. I don’t claim that over the knee stilettos are ladylike but they sure are sexy and i dance in them so there.
Kisses
Vicki
86%
I think no too bad, but I would like to be 100%
Diana,
No woman is 100% ladylike.
While I was growing up, Audrey Hepburn and Grace Kelly, and later in life, Princes Di and Lauren Bacall, were my idea of feminine women.
Each is a lady in her own way, but each had non-lady like traits that not many saw.
The average woman today is a far cry from what people in the past would consider lady-like by their standards.
I scored only 14%, but then again, I’m not out in Femme yet, so I can’t really be as ladylike as I would want to. I know that women don’t usually go out drinking as much as men, so I’m working on how to change some behaviors that are more masculine, but again, because I don’t have many female friends, due to being too physically attracted to them, and not with other crossdressers yet, as there are not many groups in NYC, plus being that crossdressing is also sexual, I’m not comfortable being around other cd’s yet. Whew! Anyway, what’s a man/girl to do if I want to be out in Femme more, but pretty much on my own?? Thanks, Samantha.
Surely, a city the size and divers as NYC is, there should be several groups/organizations let alone educational places for CDs and Trans people as us.
Check around with the local gay and lesbian places, and don’t forget your city’s Female Impersonation performers and magazines that you can pick up at your local adult book shops.
I scored a 48% on this quiz. I do believe I could change my image and I enjoy who I am.
Wow a 97%. Just goes to show that knowing proper etiquette has always had its place in society. My life long goal has always been to be a lady. To meet my goal I have always acted and dressed like a lady every time I am Sharon. As a result I am extremely comfortable both with myself as Sharon and out in the public.
I got a score of 88%.
My answers were:
1)A 2)C 3)C 4)C 5)C 6)C 7)C 8)C 9)A 10)C
What were your answers?
What answers would be 100%?
“You are 83% ladylike. ”
As with any other quiz, several questions didn’t have the exact answer I’d choose. For example, I selected “With a kiss on the cheek” because I do that sometimes, but when I’m in male mode I usually just wave my hand and only handshake qhen people expect me to.
For the second question, I took the “red wine” option, but the right answer would be “none at all”, since I don’t drink anything that have even the least bit of alcohol. Something similar for the last question, because my actual answer would be “I don’t smoke or get drunk at all, public or not”.
But I guess this is the best I got being the most honest the quiz gave me chance to.
I am 86% ladylike. Not bad but I was hoping to do even better.
I don’t mean to be a wet blanket (but I’m going to) and I completely love this site and the community and the fact that Lucille is here to help us all, but…. this quiz is not a good thing. It really serves only to perpetuate stereotypes of what’s expected to be female behaviour, and from the one commenter who said she scored poorly and was upset, we can see that it has the potential to do more harm than good.
It’s very easy to see what the right answer “should” be, but the overwhelming majority of females don’t always greet friends with a kiss, order girly cocktails, wear pretty lingerie to bed or dress all slutty, showing as much skin as possible. And – heaven forfend – some women even smoke!
We are all women here, not caricatures of women, and there’s an incredibly wide spectrum of behaviours that make someone a lady.
I’m sorry, especially since this is my first comment here, but I felt that it needed to be said and I want to make sure everyone knows that a poor score on this thing doesn’t make you any less of a woman or mean that you have any extra work to do if you’re comfortable in your own skin!
Liz
And, I would add that saying “please” and “thank you” or being calm in traffic are not gender-associated traits. I have always done those things; it’s the civilized way to behave, regardless of your gender.