Stepping out into the word as your female self can be incredibly empowering. It’s powerful validation for crossdressers and transgender women alike.
In this blog post, I want to dive into this topic and hear about your own experiences. How often do you present yourself as a woman in public?
Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress regularly or on occasion? Or is the answer, sadly, “never”?
Please take my transgender / crossdressing survey and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I’m out every day, but am not FT yet…
I can’t wait for the day I have the nerve to step out as a woman, I have escalated my desire and passion to be seen as a woman. I have been dressing behind closed doors on a regular basis and have collected many cute oufits, wigs, shoes jewelry and tons of bras and panties. My makeup skills are getting better, I have a good grasp on conturing, highlighting and different eyes and lips techniques. I’m 5’6″ and have very small feet and hands that look sooo girly with nail polish and accsessories, LOVE IT!.
My only concern is leaving my house in my familiar vehicle for my neighbors to see, or getting pulled over for too much makeup:) cops will do that just to f*ck with you, I record all my Sheila sessions and can tell that over the last few months I have become almost passable with the exception of my voice. The woman that looks back at me in the mirrior is so beautiful, I wish I could be Sheila 100% of the time.
“Sheila”…You Are Very Pretty and Sexy…Sweetie, You Are Like Me…I Have Over 100 bras In My Collection !!!
I go out as often as I can but dress at home everyday.
i started when i wasn 5 but remained in the closet for years untig5 years ago. I began performing as a woman on stage. I started out doing female impersonation in variety shows. I am a singer performer and thought how cool to be a glamoures woman on stage. So i started out on amature nights. Not one for going out to bars in drag i found it much better on stage. At least this way it was known I was a performer. Now i am working full time with all women and my life is amazing!
If it was not for my voice and my rather prominent Adams apple I would probably find the courage. But as of yet I am still afraid. Even though my wife is 100% supportive. Living in a small midwestern town has its risks also. But I do what I can and I am always girl underneath.
For yrs I was afraid of going out locally while dressed(wife helps me with hair/makeup ect) But now I know that I need’nt be afraid(except for watching out for co-workers)
I wasted a lot of time because of FEAR!
“Janedon”…Very Nice Outfit…You Have Super Sexy Legs…Just Enjoy Yourself Going Out (Very Passable)…You Are Very Lucky To Have A Wonderful Wife !!!
Lucille,
I have the full support of my wife yet I do not crossdress. I cannot begin to understand the reason for my reluctance. I wish I could. I know I would be much happier and this connundrum and inaction on my part contributes greatly to my depression. I know what I need to do, but something stops me.
I want you to know that you are making a substantial contribution to the trans community, you are making a difference.
I don’t know what else to say
Warm Regards,
Joel aka Marissa
Marissa(Joel) if you have the support of your wife,
you’re half-way there.
Only a SUGGESTION!, try taking the herb hormones.
In 18-24 months time, see how you feel, I don’t think you’ll regret it >I think you’ll love it.
You will have more to share with your wife, you will
probably have more respect & love for your wife.
Good-luck!
Once I made my momentus decision to start dressing as a woman as much as I could, meaning never at work, and I came out to many people there has been nothing stopping me. I’ve bought a whole new wardrobe and makeup products and started taking Lucille’s herbal regimen to enlargen my breasts (its working marvelously after 4 months). So with a new self image I am going out in public dressed in various outfits, including a very pretty summer dress in last week’s gay pride parade here in Denver. I go confidently with a smile always and get lots of comments about my appearance. PFLAG has been an enormous source of support. Once upon a time I was terrified of the thought of even going into my backyard dressed…now I look forward to going anywhere and everywhere in my femme mode. I will retire in May next year and plan on living 24/7 as a woman. Recent news is that Medicare now will pay for a sex change and I am excited and a bit trepidatious about that. I’ve lived too long to finally realize my lifelong dream and my retirement years will be fully happy. Thank you Lucille…could not have done this without you.
Hi ladies
I am an occasional crossdresser. Whilst I have worn feminine lingerie since I was about seven years of age (in secret from my mother), I have had the courage to “come out” within a small circle of friends, dressing with their understanding. I should like to dress as an empowered female all the time.
With love.