Stepping out into the word as your female self can be incredibly empowering. It’s powerful validation for crossdressers and transgender women alike.
In this blog post, I want to dive into this topic and hear about your own experiences. How often do you present yourself as a woman in public?
Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress regularly or on occasion? Or is the answer, sadly, “never”?
Please take my transgender / crossdressing survey and share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Have lived as my true self full time for 6 years now and enjoy life so much more now. Xx
I’m finally at a point where I live full time as the woman I’ve always been inside and loving it! I started hrt about 2 months ago, been a little moody but feeling great!
You are soooo pretty!
Aw, thanks babe!
Hello,
Enjoy your outings, it is wonderful to be out and about.
Best,
Wanita
I go out 1-2x/month. Usually have dinner at a nice upscale restaurant then end up at another higher end bar that has a large seating area for a night cap. So long as I walk with confidence and smile, all is good. If I am off my game then I am nervous and feel like I get “clocked”.
Been to a few fundraisers where I am the only “T girl” there…..matter of fact going to next month at a mainstream (ie Hilton) hotel. Gulp. Just remember to smile!!
It is thrilling to go out in public dressed as a woman! Even though I can no longer even dream of passing, I still wear girl clothes several times each week. To work, to dinner, to the movies. Even out clubbing. I especially like summery clothes. I like the bright colors, flirty styles, and soft fabrics. I enjoy watching others get whiplash when they take that second look. I would say the positive responses outweigh the negative by 10 to 1. I have reached the point in my life where I do not much give a rat’s elbow what anyone else thinks, I just dress for myself.
Of course, all of my undies are girly panties. I have natural breasts but as a C-cup I do not require a bra every day. Let them breathe!
i would love to go out as a woman i do wear fem items of clothing all the time but if Buffalo ny had a place where i could get a makeover i would go out as a woman i have always wanted to be a woman but i remain hidden
I am the exact same I love dressing up as a woman and wearing feminine clothing where ever I can. I would love to actually find a place to go to and get a full make over as a woman and enhance my inner feeling of a woman and possibly feel good with myself to go out as a woman. I’m sure that would be amazing but I too remain hidden
Lucille,
I totally agree with your opening sentence:
” Stepping out publicly as a woman is one of the most powerful ways to validate your femme self.” Years ago I struggled with my desire and purpose of dressing. I set a goal to become as passable a female as possible or not dress at all. Your site and tips have been such a wonderful and friendly source in pursuit of my goal. That said, I now only dress to go out publicly. It may only be once or twice a year, but what time I have, I am Barbara in as many public places as possible “validating my femme self”,
Thanks again Lucille,
Have fun,
Barbara Jane
You look tremendous!!!
when ever I got chance to go alone for a long journey I usevly wears glass bangles under full sleeves. I used to wear ear studs too.which hide under my hair. but often seems failed. It became thrill for me.