Do you think it’s important to “pass” as a woman? Many crossdressers and transgender women wrestle with this question.
Is passing really something worth striving for?
I’ve shared my thoughts on this topic in this blog post. (Spoiler: I don’t think it matters!)
But now, I want to hear from you:
Do you care about passing as a woman, or are you proud to embrace your identity as a confident and classy crossdresser or transgender woman?
Take my “Passing Poll” and share your thoughts in the comments!
Love,
Lucille
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We all want to pass but At the same time I really resent this label. I want to be me. I identify as female. I wish sometimes I could just be content with androgynous but I really feel better as she. So why do I have to “pass” as myself. I don’t have a vagina, but I don’t identify as male. I just started hormones and blockers but I just would feel so much better if I could just be myself. Not a guy who wants to pass as a woman but a transgender woman- meaning that I identify as female. I feel
So much better this way. That’s how I. An express myself. So why do people have to sit there and judge me see if I look like… Are they looking at my stature or trying to see if my hands are too big or do they want to know whether I have male or female parts. That’s so unfair. I hate that. Makes me feel bad. Just get over looks and start to talk to people
I GUESS YOU COULD CLASSIFY ME AS A “COUGAR” CD…I’D LOVE ANY FEED BACK AS TO MY MAKEUP LOOKS…CLOTHING STYLES…WIG CHOICES (COLORS I LOOK BEST IN)
PLEASE BE HONEST WITH ME
I wish I could pass all the time but, I am very tall. So sometimes I just have to own it and not worry about what others think.
Just remember most all midels, pageant winners are all 5ftr 10″ or taller.
The wonderful woman who is teaching me about being a woman is a former beauty queen and is over feet tall.
In over 60 years old, doing something that I love and enjoy.
I have 20 plus year old women friends who are extremely jealous of my life.
The summed up content of most is “they’re jealous, and mean it.
I went to a wedding for a friend this past weekend and had the bride come up to me and whispered to me that she was jealous of all the attention I was getting.
I hugged her and said thanks. Your much prettier than me.
We hugged.
She’s in Italy for 3 weeks.
Hi Paula, I think you look beautiful. I’m tall also. Would you like to get together? I hope so. Love, Collette
Hey hun, you look more like a female than a lot of the females I know already. You have gorgeous legs. Love the sheer hose (if you are wearing), and love your heels too!
I know for me being older helps but I love being passable when I am wearing makeup and having my hair fixed I have the confidence to go and do as I please without worrying about someone saying something negative to me.
what is your opinion about my point of view ?
I care about passing as a woman , but definitely I am proud to be seen as the classy crossdresser or transgender woman that I am
I got the ‘ flat to Femme ‘ yrs a got
and I like to say I love it works I was I small A now I am a small C cup your the beast hugyss
love Kimmy
When your greatest desire is to be a female, you want to be as feminine as possible, so yes, it’s important to be passable
It’s a delightful feeling going to the mall and passing as the woman I was meant to be. It’s a sexy thing to wear a dress and heels and blend in with the other women there. I just love to go out and be myself without noticing what other people think.
Whether in a dress or jeans and a tank top, I pass quite well and feel feminine as a woman. I love being me and as the song says: “I enjoy being a girl!”