Do you feel like you don’t fit into traditional gender norms?
Whether you’re a crossdresser, a transgender woman, or someone who embraces a different gender identity, one thing is clear: society still has a lot to learn about gender non-conforming people.
Do you agree? If so, let’s talk about it!
What do you wish people understood about you?
Whether it’s the people closest to you or the world at large, what message would you like to share?
The more voices and perspectives out there, the more others will hopefully begin to understand.
I’d love to hear from you, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
even gays don’t like tg’s no one understands our need to crossdress to feel free to live our lives
that they understood that I am a hetero male who loves to role play as a lesbian woman. My wife knows but does not accept.
I am bi! Truly Bi, not sure if going to change in the future! I just don’t understand! Can this be possible? So confused! I adore cocktail in my mouth or in my butt! And it really makes me feel good! That someone loves and gets turned on, as we as myself getting used and that I can put some pleasure in someones day? But I still do love women too! I get turned on to their bodies and wish so much I had the equipment they were born with! I live to organism either equally. I hadn’the had a clue I had feelings as being a submissive. Now that I look at my situation, I like being submissive! Even to women. I can disarm women that I’m attracted to. And make love. I let the women, agressive tendacys come out and many times I’mean on the bottom. I JUST DON’the where I belong.
Honestly I wish people would understand the difference beween a crossdresser and a panty boy. Also what someone said earlier. Most of us aren’t just looking to hook up, this is a part of us and we want to be treated with respect.
I wish people could understand the internal pain, stress, loneliness of hiding who I really am out of fear of losing everything. I wish for love and acceptance along with the freedom to exist outside of my closet. I wish I could hug everyone that is hurting and feels like no one cares.
Back in 1950 I was placed in a mental hospital because of my wanting to change. They could not change my longings. I married and had 8 children. I stayed hidden for many years. I had 2 daughters who understood me but did not want to upset the family so I repressed my thoughts and came out when alone. I am now 86 and still have the desires and don’t give a damn now before I die. I think I started the change course in August and am disappointed in the results. I still have my feminine thoughts but think it is too late for me. I have been rapid, beaten and tortured during my lifetime, but some day when I am gone, maybe the world will accept us, whether MtoF or FtoM.
This a great topic Lucille. I want people to realize that I just want to be happy for the rest of my life. Why would anyone criticize me for wanting that? All my life I suppressed my transgender nature but now that I am retired I am only doing what I’ve waited 65 years to do – express my identity as a female in society and I am extremely happy finally! As Cait Jenner said “if I had not done this and I was on my deathbed I would have wasted my life” Also I want people to accept much younger children who have expressed their desire to be the other gender and have opportunities just like any other person throughout their lives. Our society is capable of this acceptance.
I wish just to be like you I have always felt feminine and happy to be amongst girls and to adore their attire
you are right we did not asked to be born nor did we asked to be born %?*$^d up but we are do we want to hurt anyone no , we can’t change who we are because everyone of us has tried more than once, but we come back to who we really are and that is her and no amount of denial will change that I just wish that our partners could accept this they could have best of both worlds if the could just bend not brake I have decided to be single again and go live full time as me not him so wish me luck it is a new step for me not everyone else.