Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i love perfume i love my breasts i was a 32a=b=c i am now 38c and loving ut
Lucille, thank you for your site and another excellent article!
This is a subtle thing, but I sometimes walk around with one of my hands dangling–“limp-wristed”…it makes me feel very feminine. The forearm is parallel to the floor, and the hand just dangles…I’ve noticed women do this sometimes, not all women, but some of them do it; and men NEVER do it.
Heather
I tried a few jumps after taking a training class. My twin brother had tried it and encouraged (or challenged) me to try it as well. The desire to test how well I could handle fear through prayer. Mary Baker Eddy described God with seven synonyms in her major work Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures. One synonym for God she gives is “Love.”. I reminded myself of the hymn which has the words: “Everlasting arms of Love are beneath, around,above. His the arms we lean upon.”. Its found in the Christian Science Hymnal. I did feel safe when I jumped out. It was a relief to see that the chute had opened properly. This was about 25 years ago. We steered our chutes in the direction pointed by a large yellow arrow on the ground. We practiced falling and rolling as the old fashioned round chutes always moved horizontally at five miles an hour. I did it about 3 times but skipped jumping the full 5 jumps I had paid for. I hope these ideas provide you some reassurance. Stuart Milne
Lucille~I am a mid 20s trans girl and been on hormones for awhile now:)) live full time 24/7 as female and i LUV it!! I am pretty much passable all the time but i ALWAYS am looking for ways to feminize even more!!
Recently i started wondering if ~ I was to do my make up like “drag queen style~i.e.~EXtreme Contouring and highlighting and letting my make up sit/Cook first b4 blending(~methods drag queens use..
Do you think it would be more effective for us trans girls to use such extreme methods for make up such as this or to use the “Same methods G.G.’s use in everyday 15min make up regimens..??
HOrmones have changed the fatt redistribution in my face causing it to Feminize alot and luckily im younger So,that also helped in my favor alot too..:)
NEways my question is do you think trans girls should spend 3 hours applying make up the way drag queens do or do you think it looks more Fem to just do a quick everyday 15min Genetic girls face regimen??
I Would GREATLY APPRECIATE your advice on this topic?? thanxxx jessca
Lucille is right
Hi Jessica!
Wow, you look like a Barbie doll – I’m not sure there is much I can tell you! 😉
In my opinion, natural makeup is a lot more flattering for the daytime. It’s fine to go all-out at night when you want to turn heads, but generally speaking, if you do your makeup like a drag queen, you’re going to look like … a drag queen.
You are lucky to have youth and beauty on your side! Enjoy it! 🙂
Love,
Lucille
Practicing your smiling technique is really great advice. I’ve often caught my daughter, now a ten year old, looking at herself in the bathroom mirror, practicing various facial expressions which invariable show up in conversations with her parents. You know, like the classic eye roll,etc. Everyone just thinks that young girls are born with all those expressions just because they’re girls, but no, they practice them, much to the chagrin of their parents. By the time they are young women, it’s just second nature, so you only think it’s spontaneous. And guys, they have no idea that that flirty smile is a highly practiced secret weapon.
Just the thought of being with my friends as Lena,makes my feminine image so complete.As I sit here typing this note to you, tears come to my eyes I realize that I am a complete woman,even if my body says I am not. I am so happy that I am what I choose to be.
Sorry, I said same pictures.
Laura
Hi Lucille
Recently, when I am travelling I all take some nightgowns to feel as woman in the night.
Here you are same pictures.
Thanks for all.
Best regards
Laura