Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi girls.what sort of fragrance would you suggest to enchane my girly girl side?.thanks stephanie
Hi
Fragrance is one of my fetishes.
I love the following,
Ellen Tracy
Dune
Fendi
Chapped
OBESSION
VS SECRET
RED DOOR
RUBIES AND DIAMONDS (ELIZABETH TAYLOR)
CARTIER
I love them all.
I never go out with no scent.
I think it is an attention getter.
I am sure you will love all of them. Let me know how what happens
Desiree
Hi I’m Marie iam just becoming in touch with my feminine side I feel nice when I shave my legs and all body hair I am just starting to wear nice panties which makes me feel so nice and soft but I’m not quite sure who I am one day the feminine side is strong then next day the male side over powers it so I’m not sure but I would love to be Marie. Xx
I agree with you about shaving. It feels so good to not have hair on my body. That is one of the first things I did and it made me feel better about myself and it physically feels nice.
Marie…such a nice name
You will get there. For me there’s always times when I have to be a man…work, family, etc. But I am myself when I’m a woman. Just embrace the femininity and love it!
Being feminine is the most enjoyable part of my life
Marie and Tiffanie,
I’m in a very similar situation in my life. Most of the time, I have to be a man for the same reasons, family(wife) and work, to name a couple. I enjoy that part of my life very much.
Having said that, when I am able to be Crissy, dressing up to show my sexy, feminine side, I feel a certain warmth and joy that I don’t get under any other circumstances. I accept that part of me and feel it often, even when fully in male mode.
I find that in everyday interactions, more and more people see and express to me how feminine I really am, and over time I have learned to find ways to channel that energy, and utilize it for my own confidence. I love my inner feminine self, she is who I am, and I absolutely crave those moments where I hear it from other men and women that I have and express a very feminine side to the world. I love being considered one of the girls, and I love being told I act and behave as such! I am a woman, I dont try to be, I dont put on an act, it comes natural. I work in a phone job, where numerous times I have been called ma’am as opposed to sir, and I have had men and women do that, then say, you are just very polite and warm, and yes I am, so.I always thank them and let them know its very ok to call me miss, or ma’am, or anything that addresses me as woman. It’s a good feeling to be acknowledged, and if I can have that comfort come.naturally…..it just makes me feel feminine, it makes me feel normal, it makes me feel like me!
In my case I like sometimes to start day from putting some tongs tight, then I’m putting well fitted pantyhose and I’m pulling it very precisely to make them full contact with all my body details below -especially in panty area, I have it even between my but cheeks holding and supporting every thing slim and tight. After that I quickly put another tongs also tighting them to make everything perfectly fitted. Next is some not so big bra – in fact smaller is better only in this case – and sometimes when I’m really horny, I put some nylon-like dress with more designed holes than actual material. After that only wig is left to put on and then – dressed like this something like basics – I put full bath of hot water and I jump in to have a female bath time. These are always my longest visits in a bathroom. There’s always music playing and I’m reading some girls magazine’s and just relaxing with woman’s touch all the time. When I get out I always stay in hole panties installation and I’m making them dry as possible with a towel and later with hairdryer and I love it because when everything is getting dry it also “stick” better to body and gets a little bit tighter etc. Then I dress the rest however my mind leads me to do it 🙂
Hi Lucille I’m a little discouraged today sometimes I wonder if my check is ever going to show up I get down at times I’m not sure whether its still my grieving over my wife, moving all my stuff into storage, and waiting to start transitioning or all three maybe not being able to get in here doesn’t help either I sure hope my check shows up soon I’m really getting anxious I really need a change of pace bad even a movie would help something really different Love M.J.
I feel the most feminine when I’m the prettiest too as when I get rid of uggy body & facial hair get moisturized let a little time pass do my makeup and get dressed in something sexy of course I start with matching bra and panties and then maybe a waist cincher and padded girdle then depending on what I’m wearing if it’s jeans I pull them up zip or button them okay then I find a nice top to complete the look then I find my jewelry and then when I’m all done a complete woman that’s when I feel my most feminine my hair is just right makeup looks good and if I turned out good enough I may even take off somewhere anywhere but home is always nice its nice to dress at home but I’m ready for the world to get to know the new me and the more I think about it the less I care whether I pass or not just so I can be myself because I know inside I’m all woman Love M.J.
I know a lot of women hate doing it(myself included) but I feel the sexiest right after shaving my legs. The soft smooth feel makes me feel wonderful!
I feel the most feminine when I feel the prettiest. That’s usually when I wear something soft that caresses and soothes my body with gentle designs or patterns.
With a quick hug and a peg on your cheeks,
Sylvia