Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love to pass. Seeing men not just look at me, but want to undress me is such a wonderful feeling. I do get asked out on dates quite a bit when I’m out and about. Dressing appropriate but also a little sexy, is my look and it seems to work fine for me. I’m enjoying being out in the world, and do hope to take this MUCH further.
Kelli Ann,
I agree completely with TJ. You are not only adorable, but very sexy. I would be interested in you in my male mode or when I’m all dolled up as Crissy.
Keep doing what you love to do. And take it as far as you can, girl!
I love it.
Kelliher Ann:
You are Adorable!
Your especially elegant look is Fabulous. Enjoy being You! T.J
At night after mosterizing i lay doun and listen to feminine affirmations on YouTube and as i drift off i have dreams of growing up female.
A nightly roller set gives me time to reflect on the day I’ve had. It’s a time to draw closer to my femininity while I’m getting ready for the next day. And yes, I’ve gotten comfortable with magnetic rollers in my hair! 😉
by girl name hehehe. I wear panties night gown to sleep in I have been wearing panies for as long as n can remember now I am 42 years now and stil love my girly side I dress as girl to in my 20’s and 30 thirtys but I love to. be fem so I wear my panties 24/7 wane be a women in all ways is my dream
I just recently started taking selfies, hopefully, they look ok,
and do love wearing soft panties, makes me feel so feminine,
the sizes are kind of weird took me while to get used to the differences,
and figuring out bras sizes, just takes a little time to learn.
But sure is worth the effort, my little A cups are hard to find bras for
online, easier in the store.
Hope everyone here has a great Christmas and love this site,
its the most, everyone is so nice here.
Hi Mary Jane! I stayed at an A cup thru several years of HRT aling with assorted creams and herbal oinments with literally years if breast massaging but wasn’t succeeding in growing any larger. I finally chose to spend the money on a breast augmentation, and now I have DD cup breasts. My point in commenting is not to tell you to get a boob job, but to suggest my favorite Great quality bra brand that worked well for me at an A cup and now as a DD cup. Try out ThirdLove.com online and I am sure you’re going to really like their comfort, fit and quality. The have had women engineers design what women know we need, rather than a man who diesn’t have boobs, has not worn a bra so cannot possibly know what is most comfortable in a bra design. Third Love also does 1/2 cup sizes and they have straos that are resustant to slipping iff our shoulders. BTW, their sizing doesn’t include DD cups, so they call them ‘E Cups’, instead. *If you tell them Lana LeSoleau referred you, I think I get a discount on a future bra purchase. I have also had trans-positive Experian getting fitted and treated extremely well at Victoria!s Secret for bras, panties and snything else they sell. I have always felt welcomed and safe there, and when I needed A Cup bras, their extra padded pushup ‘Bombshell’ bras were a goid choice and fit me comfortably as well as looked Great for curves by adding 2 cup sizes! The stores have usually had A Cups available when I asked. **I personally wear a 36 band.
does any one know how one can make their voice more light and feminine? i am tired when i talk people always call me sir when just before they call me ma’ma
Hi Sofee
When a woman speaks the voice forms in the bottom of her larynx. When a man talks the sound comes from the top of the larynx. When you speak touch your throat gently, feel where the vibrations are. It takes practice to adjust the area where the sound forms from.
Have patience and practice.
Hope this helps you.
Much love ❤
Tina D. H.
thank you.
Most of the time the vibrations come from the middle, that might sound wired but I sing and play the flute a lot. I sing more when I am alone but I have done choir up till I was 19/20 so I think that has some thing to do with my vibrations being more in the middle. I still thank you for your advice and will practices.
Darling we have lots in common – ever in the Toronto area and if so maybe drinks 🙂
Panties and night shirts. I let out my inter girl by wearing panties even when dressed like a man. I love them. They let me be me inside all the time. Nothing makes me feel better than sleeping in my night shirts and panties. It’s like rapping myself in a big hug at the end of the day. It also helps me to remember to do my girly things at the end of the day, like washing my face, putting moisturizers on, and night creams before bed. It makes me smile.