Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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one more little thing to help you feel just a bit more feminine is to paint your toenails, I find it very comforting after I get home and take off my shoes to find a pretty pink , its relaxing to me
The way I make my self feel good about myself is how purty I can get my self to look and feel. The purtier the sexier I feel hands down
This is great, as a 15 year old transitioning female I need all the help I can get for this sort of thing. Since I’m too young to get ahold of some of those illusive hormones, I desperately need to try to find alternatives to making my waist smaller, my hips bigger, and my mind more feminine in general. This site has helped, thank you to whoever the author is.
When I want to feel feminine, I like to shower, shave, apply some VS lotions & dress up in sexy lingerie, I’m a lingerie addict & have quite a collection, I’m in my sexy sixties, widow, looking for a partner to dress up for, love to all ,
Yvette
Yvette,
You look amazing! Where are you from? I am so addicted to lingerie, just adore it. Would love to chat sometime.
Yours,
Mandy
I am so happy that this site exists! The way Lucille writes her articles are just so fabulously perfect! She is an amazing asset to girls who are going through transition and need a little help with certain things. Being early in transition, I am incredibly thankful for her work! Thank you, Lucille!
from a man that work so hard to make a woman happy for all these years and to be left alone again, does bring the feminine out in me to feel not alone again and im very happy that she stills lives inside of me that makes me happy and un-lonely. to all my bro sisters , love you sissygirl..
For me, now in my seventies, how I have always felt more feminine is to just let myself be who I really am. I have learned over the years that the only person I really have to please is my inner self, my real self. I am married with children and would never let them know who I really am but I have evolved enough to show off my feminine self to strangers. I have become comfortable enough to go out with shorts pulled high to show off my shaved legs.
Claudia, I just want you to know you are not alone. I am in my late 60s, also married and I would never show this part of me to my wife. yet, anytime I have some time alone, I put on a bra, panties, hose and a skirt or dress and just walk around the house. And on those rare occasions where she is out of town, I go to a local bar to enjoy being a woman.
for being in your seventies makes me look forward on being myself for years to come as myself or the inner woman inside of me. very happy for you my sister . love sissygirl..
Sabrina, I thank you for solving a major conundrum. I dislike perfumes and suchlike contrived odours, but as a herbalist, I have wonderful herbs to hide my malt smells with, never thought of fragrant baths, silly me!
Plucking eyebrows was utter hell at first, now it is the first ritual of my weekly beauty routine, the one thing I have changed that is undeniably feminine and vain, the one thing that tells me I need to look pretty, and so difficult to master, but so satisfyingly feminising.