Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi All! My method of being feminine is to just blend in as any woman would. I.e. dress age appropriate, never skimp on clothing, makeup or wigs, always smile and just be as feminine as possible. I am 74 now and retired and live pretty much every day of my life as a woman now. I love it! Here I am a few weeks ago shopping for shoes at Nordstrom’s. I’m always treated as a lady.
I been doing this about 7 months dressing up i had the feelings of a female in such a longer time just took me 42 years to come out in the open up and going out in public. I been finding ways to become more female i have really been looking for way to get everything done in the fastest way possible but i have learned that is not the best way to do things. I been really hoping that i get the hormone shots and the complete surgery. The only thing i have trouble is the voice I have not found it yet. I been looking everywhere to find my voice i been singing to songs and i been talking as well but nothing seems to sound right.
A lot of good information keep it up girls
I am a married man who loves to dress up. Interestingly enough, I love women yet still get very excited when I’m dressed as Crissy.
My favorite ways to be feminine are to get all dressed up in a tight short dress or skirt with garter hose, thong type underwear and heels, preferably at least 4″, a nice long wig and makeup. There is something to looking like a woman that makes me feel very feminine inside. Just sitting with my legs crossed or walking around, I truly feel like Crissy. When I have been out in public, women seem to enjoy being around me and always treat me like Crissy. It’s hard to explain how good that feel. (I don’t pass, but that doesn’t matter to me and apparently not to others either)
Unfortunately, I don’t get the chance to do this very often because my wife would not approve. I do appreciate having this forum to share my thoughts and feelings as I have no other outlet to talk about this.
Thanks, Lucille for having this site. And know that reading other comments helps me feel like Crissy is always there with me.
Crossing in public is very easy. Start with sports tights and razor back shirts with conservative bra (pushup or padded if necessary). Add a cardigan (either to match or splash color) tied around your waist to hide your differing shapes (I even use it to hide all the stuff I crammed into my legging’s side pockets). Walk tall, exude confidence. You can present this way as male – something in between – to female. Its a great start for public confidence, besides most people are too busy to take notice for more than a few seconds. When you discover something hidden on sale, tell the shopper next to you, she will love to hear about it. Keep your conversations short, polite, and casual, unless they totally engage you (then you can talk about anything relevant). No store clerk (male or female) ever gave me a less than perfectly happy presentation. Some dudes may suddenly divert eye contact (thinking don’t look and it will go away!), others may stare (probably thinking to themselves, I wish I could do that!), and usually the younger teen girls take notice (are those boobs real? I wish mine were that big!).
However the key is confidence, even if its a mental mask at first, walk tall, gaze outward, smile (no not that big, tone it down a bit), be very polite. I haven’t completely transitioned, and present as male to ??? most of the time, even though I own a perfect pair of 38d’s due to natural hormone issues, and this formula works when I want to feel fem.
Thank you! that was helpful! I am starting a transgender social to help others.
I love to take a scented bubble bath, soak, shave my body, apply moisturizer, perfume and wear some feminine clothing.
I feel feminine at all times, the struggle is to conform to my male side. For over a year I just wear female undergarments; panties, hose, lace body suits, girly tees, and gaff to conceal the extras, when possible a bra and body shapers, also a dab of makeup, lipstick and curled eyelashes. I own many pairs of high heel sandals, dresses, tops, skirts, wigs, but don’t go out, it would have to be far from home. Thank you for your constant advise on matters and for allowing to post our thoughts.
Very lovely! I admire your confidence in yourself. I’m married so it’s difficult for me to share any of those feelings. Just wanted to share a little. thank you
D. I understand that completely. I am also married and my wife does not know about my love of crossdressing. When I do have the opportunity, I love getting all dressed up and going out to a local bar that totally accepts me. It really makes me feel very feminine.
You look beautiful i love to dress up and wear lipstick i cant find my dress size or bra size
I am connected to my feminine’s side all the time, for over a year now I only wear female undergarments, panties, hose, teddys, girly tees, when possible a bra. I also wear a little bit of makeup. My ears are pierced, but have to put a concealer so the holes are not noticeable. My toenails are polished. The struggle is to conform to my male side. I long to go out, but would have to be far from home. Thank you for the opportunity to share some thoughts.
I feel the same way! I wear panties all the time. When I’m home alone i get all dressed up feeling good about my self. I never gone out in public yet want too some day.