Putting on a dress and lipstick aren’t the only ways to express your femininity. (Women are a bit more complex than that!)
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and share some “unexpected” ways to be more feminine.
Ready to boost your womanly allure? Try these 3 tips:
1. Buy a new perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine.
While it’s great to have a signature scent, it’s also good to switch things up sometimes.
Since scent is strongly linked to memories, your current perfume may no longer represent who you are.
If that’s the case, it’s time to go shopping! Look for a perfume that matches the feminine qualities you want to express NOW:
- Try a floral scent if you want to convey your soft, romantic side.
- Try a woody or oriental scent if you want to bring out your inner seductress.
Check out this article for more on the feminizing power of perfume.
2. Be more polite
Numerous studies have shown that women are more polite than men. Great manners can significantly enhance your feminine image.
Here are 3 things to keep in mind:
- Always remember to say “please” and “thank you.” These little words go a long way!
- Use softeners in your language. For example, instead of saying “I can’t hear you” say, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.”
- Consider how you come across online. Remember, it’s as important to be polite in emails and online as it is in person.
3. Loosen up
Want to instantly improve your feminine image? A simple secret is to loosen up. This applies to your body AND your mind.
First, loosen up your body.
Women are naturally more limber than men. If you have a tense and tight body, it’s going to translate into stiff, jerky movements – the opposite of feminine and graceful.
To loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
This will do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Next, loosen up your mind.
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody.
Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic…
What are your favorite – and maybe unexpected – ways to feel feminine?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. Tuning into your “feminine mind” is another way to boost your womanly allure. Hypnosis can help you do this! Curious to give it a try? Click here to download my FREE Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini session.
I always love Lucille’s advice. Even if you’re already doing the things she talks about, a reminder is always good. By the way, i’ve got new breast enhancements due next month!
My Darlings,
First, I need to paint a picture of who Luna Marie is. I am a deep closet babe (for many complex reasons). Thus, I must plot, plan and carefully escape my real life, to have any femme and play time.
Worse yet, I’m 6-3, 270 and have not sinply big, but huge hands and feet. (It is just short of impossible to find lady shoes that fit and I easily break spike heels the firs time I wear them.)
More than once I’ve been insulted, harassed in public and described as a “Big Fat, Ugly, Linebacker in Drag!” Still, when I managed to steal away for femme time with gurlz who accept me as I am, I feel pretty.
All that said and out of the way, the best way for me to “feel feminine” is self-hypnosis, deep breathing and a lady like attitude at all times, even toward my detractors.
Due to my size, I’m intimidating enough “gay bashers” (who are all cowards at heart) have so far backed off quickly, once I fail to melt in fear at their oral harrassments and physical threats.
I always wet dream wish I was young, petite and totally passable, But somehow, when going out and about, that is who I attempt to be. No, it is who I am. A charming, fun to be with, all Domme woman, sexy lady.
Leather and Lace Dreams,
Ms Luna Marie
Ms. Luna Marie
I think that you are very brave and yes I can say that I think that you are a very beautiful woman and never give up on your dreams.
Because I think that those gay bashers are just jealous because they don’t know what it’s like to be beautiful as a woman.
And thank you for your story.
I share with others in the trans support group I moderate is to be yourself and your femininity will shine. Dress your age (not trashy), do not buy cheap wigs (if you wear one), shave closely and a light fragrance.
Smile at people and meet their eye contact with your own. Acknowledging those around you with a smile is one of the most feminine things I can think of to make you feel and appear more feminine
I go shopping a lot and what makes me feel mor feminine is to buy myself something pretty to wear.Another thing I do to feel more female is to make sure that I am very nice to everyone
Yes, I love it when I find a pretty print bra with lace in the clearance section. I can’t wait to get home and put it on!
Stretching will not only give you more graceful and fluid movement, it will help to elongate bulky muscles giving a smoother appearance. Flexibility can also help prevent injuries from occurring. You’ll feel better, too!
Own it! I found once I got to a stage where I sound, smell, dress, walk, stand, well do all I can…I learned to trust I am the woman I feel inside.
I have an interest in fashion and being thrift shopper I have found many beautiful and stylish outfits that really enhance my figure and femininity. I always check in the mirror before leaving the house to make sure I look flawless with all details. When I am in public it causes people to look at the overall look, not just at my (big hands and shoulders)…
I find by initiating first contact by introducing my self to new people it helps to break the ice. Whenever and wherever possible give a genuine compliment about someone’s glasses, shoes, hair style, muscles (lol), and anything outstanding they are wearing. This usually starts a friendly conversation, and I often receive a compliment back, which makes my feel wonderful.
Yes be yourself and continue to build confidence.
I think the Greatest point you make is that you must primarily be yourself, to be overly concerned with passing is to give power to others, if you are able to show your true self to others you are powerful, but perhaps you don’t give yourself the credit for it, be grateful for who you are and celebrate yourself, and sooner or later the rest of the world will catch up.