Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I dress as a woman at night and have for years even during working hours i wear sports bra under my shirts to feel better all day. i would love to have noticable breast so that i would feel more at ease dressing as awoman for all the world to see and have that kind of confidence. however like others before me have taken enhancers and herbs for a long time and have little to no results. i am sad for this-please need SOME GREAT ADVICE with results. i want to smile from within, and finally let the world see me and me enjoy the world
I present myself out at several places, but perhaps my two favorites are a TG clothing store I visit and also a very special regular female lingerie and clothing store. I am especially fond of the latter due to the very sweet ladies there who have been sisters and mothers to me for the last 6 years since I first came to know my femme self. They have helped me so much, far beyond merely selling me pretty things. They have ofetn “hidden” me in the dressing and fitting room among their genetic female customers, passing me thigs over the partition as they do to the other ladies, with the other girls never suspecting, all in order for me to benefit from their servies and get pretty things that really fit as my body has been feminizing. I really enjoy being immersed in all the feminity and being accepted as “one of the girls” by their unsuspecting regular customers.
I spend as much time as I can out in public dressed as a woman. The first couple of times I felt that all eyes were upon me, but now, I have some confidence built up and that has really helped me prepare for bigger and better things. I have gone from covered legs to shaved legs and capri’s to shorts and tank tops. I wear a 36B bra (non-padded) and that gives me enough boobs to complete the wardrobe. I can only encourage you to get out there and do your own thing and not too worry about public opinion.
I had my gender reassignment surgery three years ago and now live 24/7 as the woman I was meant to be. Of course I lived 24/7 sevreal years prior. I love this site as I’m still learning a few tips and techniques.
You left out going out to dinner!
I am actually looking forward to your next posting as this is something that is near and dear to me, expressing femininity on a daily basis. Aside from undergarments (camisole, panties, girl trouser socks), do you know that a pair of feminine pants (my favorite: Gloria Vanderbilt) and a ladies tee-shirt type or Henley top really does goes un-noticed in public when in male-mode? And Grasshopper shoes as well? I can go out in male-mode with entirely female clothing and no-one takes notice at all!
I agree completely. I have a full wardrobe of laies slacks, jeans, tees, casual tops an unisex type women’s shoes. I wear a bra and panties, camisole, women’s socks or tights all the time and no one seems to notice. Though I ceetainly feel completely femme. Some subte makeup–neutral tone eye shadow, blush an mascara also works nicely.
You’re a lucky gal. I wish I had a beautiful and understanding GG friend like you. Cheers.
Lucille, wonderful to met you. I’am Italian Since i was childhood I have been dressing my mom clothes, her silk stockings, bodies and so on. I continued when I was a teenager, always alone in my home. In that period I believed I was gay, because I didn’t have no much success with girls, that I infinitely adored and I liked them. Also when I had my first relationship I continued to dress myself as a woman, and when I married after some time I told about my passion to my wife. for a certain time our sexual games were as among two women, fantastic. Then the marriage ended and I divorced.
when I met my actual wife, while we were being still engaged, after little time the lesbians sexual games began again. When our children arrived these games finished for strength.
And the relationship with my wife definitely cracked him.
I tried more times to stop disguising me and to deny my femininity, but I didn’t succeed: and I came to psychologically extinguish my body.
My relationship with my wife didn’t improve.
So, two years after the n-th crisis with her, i decided not to deny my femininity anymore, and I restarted to disguise me of hidden, out of house in a small separate private place.
I started to buy clothes and step by step I restarted to put make up on me.
Slowly I started to turn for shops as a man, no dressed, until the courage to ask to try some shoes it didn’t come out. Then asking suggestion on the most proper size of lingerie brought me to make outing in a shop of lingerie whose owner now I considers as my Godmother of Feminilization.
But I kept on disguising me alone in private.
Then one day I went to a dressmaker to which my Godmother had introduced me and after having chosen some clothes I went out on the street as a woman.
It was the liberation, it was fantastic! So, I started to go out “en-femme” sometimes, and to go for shops as a woman in broad daylight.
I also went out shopping with my beautician girlfriend.
Then it was the time of the outing with a girl bank employee: I entered into the bank as a splendid woman. I knew then that many men asked her who was that splendid woman.
Fantastic: they had exchanged me for a woman!
My way of dressing and to behave is not exaggerated, my “female” voice is my natural voice because fortunately is not very low so much, often for my voice, at the telephone, i am mistaken for woman.
In the last months I have been able therefore to appreciate the beauty to be WOMAN in public and in broad daylight.!!.
People don’t observe the people that they meet: if you appear them as a woman for them you are a woman. Did you know how much is it beautiful when male people open you doors!??!!
It is sufficient to be natural in the behavior and if you note that they are watching you in a certain way, it is convenient not to let on that all passes in a second.
Unfortunately my femininity is not approved from my wife that would like to separate herself from me, but she desists for love of our children.
You can imagine my torment in not to be able to be woman for many and many days before every my exit “en-femme.”
I become Jessica at when I am alone at home, I would love to be her full time, but unfortunetely my wife would not approve, lets just say I would be wife free. Having said, even though I dress as a man when I have to, I am still Jessica in mind and soul.
It seems with time I progress to new levels, I have just finished shaving all of my body hair, so now I can wear a dress and not show a chest full of hair. I have purchased breast forms, and now looking to purchase butt enhancement panties.
I buy all of my own clothing so no shyness there, and my next goal soon I hope is to go out shopping as Jessica.