Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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This is me
So, as scary as it is, the only two times I’ve been out in public at large is on a cruise with other cross dressers. Dignity cruises with Mel and Peggy. Mel
Passed before the last one, rest her soul, but she is who allowed me to finally be out of the shadows of my own house. U.S., I wear panties every day and occasionally a feminine watch or bracelet but never fully gem. Newsflash- my wife and I are going on a cruise starting Feb 14 and Lacey is going along. Not full time but at least to one of the formal nights and maybe most evenings. I’m scared. No group. No others. Just me. But I am taking my one piece bathing suit and who knows, maybe Lacey will see the sun this time, maybe even get some tan lines to enjoy! Wish me well!
Yes not U.S.
And fem not gen.
Stupid spell check!
I go out in maternity clothes,with a fake maternity belly and breasts.
Me too.
I go out anywhere and everywhere, except work, enfemme. I don’t really pass as I am constantly being made, but I don’t really care. I love being a woman.
Hi, I am in transition, currently almost 7 months on HRT. Currently I dress as myself almost everywhere except work and church. I have been slowly increasing this over the past year. It is a nice feeling when you are your true self. Hopefully by the end of the year I will be living full time.
Allie
I “underdress” completely at all times, and do not try very hard to hide my lace-trimmed cami from view. My baby sister lives with us as she is living with Stage IV lung cancer. She caught a glimpse of my mint green lace cami when I was buckling her seat belt about 4 months ago. This has led to some talks and I am now dressing in the mornings with her before my wife wakes at around 10 or 11 AM every day. It has been an exciting but scary time for me to have someone who knows me, see the “real me”.
I have gone out on many occasions during the past 30 years including malls, stores, casinos, restaurants, etc. I am sure I have been “read” many times, but after the first few times, I just didn’t let it concern me. I wish I could go full-time, but it is just not possible at this time. Having my sister know, and accept me for who I am, has been such a blessing.
Hugs to you, Lucille, for all you do for our community; and many thanks to all of my “sisters” out there. Just knowing there are many others struggling with our identity is the reason we should all have hope for a better future. Love, LoriDee
I know that going out in public is the scariest part of this ride for us “gurls”, but it is the Most Desired part of the ride! Nothing compares to the excitement & exhileration & “high”, that we gurls get by going out in public! Especially if we’re completely passable. I guess you could say I’m very lucky in that respect, being I’ve always been mistaken as a girl in boy mode! But, am I so lucky? If that wouldn’t have happened throughout my whole life, I probly wouldn’t be doing this in the first place!! You can say, “society”, kinda pushed me this direction by making me feel like,”ok, if this is who you think I am, here I am Goddammit!” So, as you asses, I’m just as confused about myself as the rest of the world is! But Lucille, let me say, “in the end, does it really matter, people gotta be themselves no matter what, or it’ll kill them!!” Literally! Ok, starting to get fogged up here, gotta go! Luv you all, and try to love yourselves, we’re all we got!
Hi, I am in 16th month of my RLT and HRT. Starting to be happy. Lucille, many thanks for your holistic approach. Michelle