Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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In fact i live my life not a 100% i wanted
I am married, have a job, can express me a lot. If you would describe me you would say ok…. That’s a very very veeeery feminized man.
In fact when i walk arround in shops from de back most people say madam, untill they look better.
It’s in my head every day, sometimes i want to turn off the toughts.
In fact the poll you added, i cant say living the max / full time or not.
Its both off me
Best regards Angelique
I am crossdeess in my home when alone will love to be out with make up bit society will disturb life of my family which is restraint me to do so it is very embarrassing for family members
I enjoy enfemme when alone at home while family members are away on short trip out of town. I will be mostly full enfemme through out the night and part of the day.
Hello,
I especially enjoy when I go on trips and do just about everything enfemme 24/7, it has been a wonderful life experience.
Being out beats any other high
I am 65 y.o. I have been living as my self full-time since 1996, twenty years. I have been very blessed, I held a full time job for over 4 years with a company that was fully aware of who I am and who I was. The person that hired me then is now my husband (of 12 years). I have lost much but gained even more. Be who you feel you are, it does get better!
I only crossdress in my room when no one is around. I am deep in the closet cause no one would understand. I don’t like it. But, some day I will be able to present myself as a women when I get away from my family.
going out en femme is all about the confidence you have in yourself, and if you don’t have confidence in yourself, you might as well give up your transitioning because this game requires ALL of your self-confidence. Sooner or later, you’re going to WANT to go out and see for yourself what the world thinks of you as a woman, and, unless you know, you’re always going to wonder ” why am I so shy ? “.GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!, get it over with. Here’s an example: when you were younger, and you were at lunch, when someone you didn’t know sat down next to you, hopefully you didn’t walk away from them, no, you broke your shyness toward a stranger and introduced them to other people, and then further breaking that shyness, you showed them around. Without being told to, because it was the right thing to do.
Well, now, you’re a grown adult, and you’re facing another shyness challenge: you’ve invested a lot of time in preparing yourself to look so damn hot!!! Now you really want to go outside dressed as a woman.
But, you’re afraid. Of what ? We’re not asking you to go out and do a striptease. Just walk around the block, Nobody is going to shoot you, I promise, and, you can always come back. Shyness is all in your head. Trust me, the one you’ve really dressed for is: yourself. you have nothing to fear. You’re doing no harm, to anyone.
I’ll give you a top-notch scenario : I’d been dying to go out dressed as a woman, but, I’m in a WHEELCHAIR. SO fucking what ? I fixed my long hair into a french-braid, put on my sluttiest makeup,
( slutty, but tasteful ) put on breast-forms, dressed in a tight pink blouse with only two buttons fixed, tied the bottom around my mid-riff, put on a really tight thong and slutty leather pants, and for the final
slut pieces: Harley-Davidson motor-cycle slut boots. Girlfriend, I was on fire!!!
Getting downstairs was easy, getting outside was even easier, going out into public looking like a Saturday-night whore, on a Sunday Morning, sheer-terror. Even though I had been planning this for months, now came the moment-of-truth, could I really pull this off ? I gritted my teeth, clenched up my fists, screamed as loud as I could ” I’m gonna do this ” put on my aviator-mirror sunglasses, checked my charge-meter, which was full, and just peeled out of the driveway, destination: who really cared.
Three guys it on me while I was out, I got twelve phone numbers, and two big biker-chicks almost flattened me because they thought I was going to steal their boyfriends. Oh, and two guys offered to buy me a drink later that evening. I was that convincing.
Trust me, the first time you go out is the scariest, after that, it’s a piece-of-cake, okay, it’s no big deal.
Try going out naked, it’s so much fun. I went to wal-mart bare-ass naked and none of the stock clerks or the cashiers were surprised.
My advise to you is this: just try going out, if even just to the front of your house. Shyness is a cop-out
Jayme Lynn