Have you noticed that all stunning women have one thing in common – besides their killer looks?
Confidence is also half the battle of passing or blending in as a woman.
How confident are YOU about expressing your fab femme self?
Do you think you’d feel more confident if you lost weight, started hormones, or had surgery?
Those things can help, of course, but true confidence comes from within.
Here are 3 ways to feel more confident right now:
1. Stop putting yourself down
Sadly, most of us are our own worst enemies. How can you expect to feel confident if you constantly put yourself down?
The important thing to realize is that these internal putdowns are a habit. They’re not a reflection of who you really are.
The first step to breaking this cycle is to interrupt your negative thoughts. If you catch yourself beating yourself up, literally tell yourself to STOP.
Next, find a way to reframe the thought into something more positive. Remind yourself that you’re doing your best and that things ARE getting better.
This might sound like simple advice, but it works if you actually do it.
2. Take risks
Confidence is like a muscle. If you don’t use it, you’ll lose it. And just like your muscles, it’s something you can develop and improve.
One of the best ways to develop confidence is to take ACTION. You’ll never build confidence if you stay in your comfort zone and do the same things you’ve always done.
So get out there and try something new! Take a few risks! Once you do, you’ll be amazed at how confident you start to feel in situations that once terrified you.
3. Celebrate your successes
Celebrating your accomplishments is another great way to increase your confidence.
It’s easy to focus on the areas that still need improving, but don’t lose sight of how far you’ve come.
What risks did you take today? What did you do well? No matter how small, start to recognize these and celebrate them.
More confidence boosters
Confidence is one of the most important feminine qualities you can develop. These tips are a great starting point.
If you want to learn more, here are my favorite books for building confidence:
- Taming Your Gremlin by Rick Carson
- Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers
- You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay
Now let’s hear from you…
Where do YOU fall on the confidence scale? If you consider yourself a stunning, self-assured woman (and I hope you do!), what confidence boosting tips can you share?
Please leave your comments below!
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