Do you want to be seen as an attractive woman? Of course you do!
To look as beautiful and feminine as possible, there are certain beauty “sins” you need to avoid. These mistakes have a big impact on how good you look when presenting yourself as a woman.
Here are 10 things that can make you appear less attractive.
1. Crossing your arms
Your body language speaks volumes. Crossing your arms is a classic defensive gesture. Crossed arms make you look uneasy or insecure – not what you want to project.
2. Dirty or untrimmed nails
Straggly nails are a sure sign of poor grooming habits. Hands are one of the most viewed parts of the body (after the face), so pay attention to your nails.
3. Dry or cracked lips
The lips are one of the most sensuous parts of a woman’s appearance. Full, moist lips are undeniably sexy. Dry, cracked lips? They’re a major distraction.
4. Poor table manners
Etiquette is an important part of your feminine presentation. (So much so that I wrote an entire article about it here.) Poor table manners are a huge turn off, so be watch for things like: eating too fast, chewing loudly, and putting your elbows on the table.
5. Lack of sleep
They call it beauty sleep for a reason. From dark under eye circles to sallow skin, lack of sleep can take a serious toll on your appearance.
6. Pulling the diva act
We can all agree that rude and demanding people are unattractive – so avoid the “diva” act. On the other hand, kindness and a smile can work wonders to enhance your appearance.
7. A high pitched voice
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is speaking in an overly-high pitched voice. It sounds completely unnatural. What’s more, this study shows that women with high pitched voices are considered less attractive than those with moderately-high pitched voices.
8. The way you smell
Scent has a major impact on your overall attractiveness. A couple things to consider are your perfume (it shouldn’t be too strong) and your breath (make sure it’s fresh!).
9. Not being able to walk in your shoes
The cutest shoes in the world won’t enhance your image if you can’t walk in them. Make sure you can walk comfortably and gracefully in your heels before stepping out in them.
This is a huge pet peeve of mine. Using profanity when you speak doesn’t make you sound cool and edgy – it’s makes you sound crass and rude. Your words can do everything to make or break your image.
These are 10 major things that can make you less attractive – but they’re not the only ones! Do you have any others to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you on this topic, so please leave your comments below!
P.S. Now that you know what NOT to do, learn how to increase your attractiveness with my FREE 3-part Male to Female Makeover Course.