Do you want to be seen as an attractive woman? Of course you do!
Everybody has the potential to look beautiful and feminine – regardless of age, size, or shape. That said, there are some beauty DON’Ts you need to avoid. These mistakes can have a big impact on how good you look when presenting yourself as a woman.
Keep reading for 10 things that can make you appear less attractive.
1. Dry or cracked lips
The lips are one of the most sensuous parts of a woman’s appearance. Full, moist lips are undeniably sexy. Dry, cracked lips are a major distraction, so be sure to care for your lips with a nourishing balm or lip treatment.
2. Dirty or untrimmed nails
Studies show that the better groomed you are, the more attractive you are perceived to be. Keeping your hands and nails well groomed is important since hands are one of the first areas people notice (after the face).
Straggly nails are a sure sign of poor grooming habits, so pay extra attention to your hands and fingernails.
3. Crossing your arms
Your body language speaks volumes. Crossing your arms is a defensive gesture that can make you look uneasy or insecure. To project confidence and attractiveness, keep your body in an open and relaxed position.
4. Poor table manners
Etiquette is an important part of your feminine presentation. (So much so that I wrote an entire article about it here.) Poor table manners are a huge turn off, so be watch for things like: eating too fast, chewing loudly, and putting your elbows on the table.
5. Lack of sleep
They call it beauty sleep for a reason. From dark under eye circles to sallow skin, lack of sleep can take a serious toll on your appearance. (If you need help sleeping, check out my Sleep & Sparkle Program, which is designed to guide you to sleep while reprogramming your mind with feminizing suggestions.)
6. Pulling the diva act
We can all agree that rude and demanding people are unattractive – so avoid the “diva” act. On the other hand, kindness and a smile can work wonders to enhance your appearance.
7. An unnaturally high pitched voice
If you are trying to feminize your voice, then you may be tempted to speak in an overly high-pitched voice. While it’s true that women have higher pitched voices, speaking in “falsetto” does not sound natural.
What’s more, this study shows that women with high pitched voices are considered less attractive than those with moderately-high pitched voices. All the more reason to speak in a more natural vocal range.
8. The way you smell
Scent has a major impact on your overall attractiveness. Obviously, you’ll want to avoid turning people off with overpowering perfume or bad breath. On the flip side, the right scent can make you appear more feminine and attractive. See my article on The Feminizing Power of Perfume to learn more.
9. Not being able to walk in your shoes
The cutest shoes in the world won’t enhance your image if you can’t walk in them. Make sure you can walk comfortably and gracefully in your heels before stepping out in them.
This is a huge pet peeve of mine. Using profanity when you speak doesn’t make you sound cool and edgy – it’s makes you sound crass and rude. Your words can do everything to make or break your image.
These are 10 major things that can make you less attractive – but they’re not the only ones! Do you have any others to add to this list?
I’d love to hear from you on this topic, so please leave your comments below!
P.S. Now that you know what NOT to do, learn how to increase your attractiveness with my FREE 3-part Male to Female Makeover Mini Course.