If you’re here right now, I’m guessing you put a lot of effort into perfecting your feminine image.
From putting outfits together and applying makeup, to practicing your voice and body movements – there’s a lot to consider!
And of course, you might even be navigating serious changes, like hormones or surgery.
However, when you’re focused on all the things you’re still working on, it’s easy to forget how far you’ve already come.
Today, let’s pause the improvement talk and take a moment to appreciate the progress you’ve made.
Because, seriously, you’re amazing!
So, I’d love to know:
What’s your proudest accomplishment on your feminine journey so far?
It could be a major milestone like starting gender affirming hormone therapy, coming out to a friend, or going out in public as a woman for the first time.
Or it could be a smaller victory, like buying your first lipstick or choosing your feminine name.
Even if you’re just starting out, there’s a lot to celebrate. You’re here on this blog, acknowledging your true self, and that’s a significant step forward!
So let’s hear it! What is your greatest transgender or crossdressing achievement?
Please share your story with us in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Lucille,
Mine is a crossdressing story. I have been dressing since I was a young boy. The journey has not always been easy…Struggled with the desire to enjoy dressing. Often felt guilt and confusion. Struggled with the desire to be free and express my female side. I believe my greatest crossdressing accomplishment is the courage to continue. After decades of fighting “urges and purges” I am enjoying being Jane. Thank you for your wonderful encouragement and tips.
Be happy and have fun dressing!
Jane Weston
My current physique. My proudest moment is combining my fullout together Including the breast forms. I would say walking around a mall. But I haven’t done that yet.
After purchasing my first breast inserts I put on a bra , put in the inserts and went to the mall. I walked into VS and bravely asked an employee to help me. For the first time in my life I was properly measured for a bra. The employee measured me with the inserts in and then I showed her how the bra fit. It was so rewarding. I then walked around the mall for 2 hours. I never had felt so feminine in my life.
I have had many magnificent trans milestones to inflate my pride, but the one that stands out the most is before I even partly committed to crossdressing/transition. I was attending a performance of “Wicked” (it was glorious, by the way), and it occurred to me to wear red shoes. That started the snowball, and I soon was ALL red, except for the witch hat. Even an outrageous red wig. I had not even really considered crossdressing yet, but wore feminine anyway. My friends were amazed and loved it! The other audience members were impressed, too. With that kind of reinforcement, I just naturally took more and more steps.
Stepping outside in all female clothes including high heels. But equally Id have to say getting better at basic nail art!
I’d have to say that my greatest achievement so far in my feminine journey is coming to the place where I’ve come to a place of self acceptance of who and what I am. I’ve come to like and enjoy the feminine aspects of who I am.
I accidentally posted a picture of myself on Facebook in one of the new camis I had treated myself to. I had only intended to share the picture with my sister but accidentally posted on my story on my Facebook page. Opps.
But I quickly came to realize that I could live with it. It felt liberating. Of the people who say it I got nothing but positive, supportive responses.
My sister said that I looked truly happy in the picture. Being seen in a outward expression of my true inner femininity and getting such positive, supportive responses made me feel beautiful and loved. What more can a lady ask for?