Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I love to take a walk en femme in quiet public parks and walkways. It is relaxing and I don’t have to interact with others saving me the embarrassment of being “outed”. I am not too passable so I try to just blend in and not call attention to myself. I’m sure anyone who would take a good look would figure it out but I just smile and walk by. This is for me and not anyone else. It is my chance to at least feel and act feminine.
Cindy
Be yourself!
I present when ever and where ever I can, mostly my weekends and after work. Love going out in the world as my femme self and interacting with all the people on the way.
Allisa
Love this picture of you, I’m use to seeing pictures of you in long skirts on CD.com. You rock those skinny jeans and heels.
Jill
It’s rare when I crossdress but when I do in full femme mode, it lasts no longer than an hour. Yes it’s an exciting thrill and the liberating feeling of being my true self. But the fear of being discovered and then shamed. Makes me hate society.
It really does take a unique courage to crossdress out in public. I want to commend those who have done so for freedom of expression, to be whoever you are without fear. Everyone deserves love no matter their sexual orientation. ☮ ♥ xx
Hi Emily V honey I feel for you sweetie you look awesome dear the freedom you seem to want is a choice at least for me I’m 56 years old I crossdresser all of those years going out in public later in life and now I’m finally full-time after starting my transition 4 months ago I fought it up till then I know you have that too we all do I don’t know your story but I couldn’t fight it anymore I had bottled myself up long enough after much deliberation and much more emotional pain of losing my wife my soul mate life before now was very painfully lived only now can I see how much of my passion for life was bottled up until I finally decided to go for it I’m ever so glad I did life is amazing now I have a new girlfriend who is ok and supportive of my new life being true to myself has been the most fulfilling thing in my life I’m so very very very happy with my transition I’m not telling you what you want but just a little glimpse into your possible future honey I think we should all be ourselves but I understand how one life can get in the way of the other but goodness sweetie this is awesomeness itself I love my new life girlfriend and Lucille she rocks but you probably know that already anyway be awesome when you can I’m TG now my breasts are growing it’s so cool Love MJ ❤
Hi Lucille i dress as a woman everywhere i go even to the mall lady’s dress shop to the movie’s shopping.
I love to dress up and I love feeling feminine. I think I am close to passing as a real woman. That is my ultimate goal. I pick night time to dress up. I get in my car and drive around as a woman. I take sexy pictures of myself and study beautiful women and how they move.
I don’t get overly emotional,cry, or get sappy with it. I just feel sexy,
beautiful and happier.
Having established that I look good/passable as a woman – facially, clothes and walk; the real key for me is the voice. I feel I can go anywhere and do anything if I have a female voice. I bought a couple of Kathe Perez’s programs and have had one session with her – she is wonderful and worth trying. I feel my voice is now good enough and that releases me to virtually go anywhere and do anything. I’m planning on a proper shopping expedition (the internet’s ok but I’d like a change) and a solo meal at a local restaurant. I practice my voice even dressed as a man and yesterday I got the ultimate affirmation – a checkout woman said thank you maam – what a buzz!
I’m not planning on a transition – I value my wife too much but I feel complete when I’m en femme. I love having the door held open for me and the more I go out, the more confidence I have.
All you girls out there – get your voice sorted and the world’s your oyster. Finally a word to Lucille – I love you honey – you provide the bridge from the man in me to Laura.
May 30th will mark a full year of living as my true self. I like to think of it as my “my new birthday”. 🙂 Although there aren’t alot of options in my area for support, I just told myself “You’re a big girl, you’ve got this!” I even found a job that allows me to go by Erin, even though I haven’t been able to legally change it yet. Trust me, if you ever want to practice presenting, get a job in retail, lol. Unfortunately, in a town of 10k people, a great deal of them knew me even before I made the switch, so I get to field numerous questions about being Trans. Guess I gotta represent, huh? The funny thing is that I’m starting to get Cis-women asking me about my makeup, and am getting called ma’am by alot of the men. What a gratifying feeling! Don’t let life make you bitter, let it make you better!