Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi I go out almost anywhere as Robyn, I also have a weekend part time job as Robyn. It was so scary at first but it had been amazing and I love being Robyn out in public.
WoW–a job you can do while Fem–What kind of job?–I do envy you- Jane
Oh yes it is amazing , I work at a Piercing Pagoda at a local mall. I have so much fun.
i never dress as a male, dont even have a complete male outfit any more anyway. So if i am going to be a woman i’ll be one every day ,hour and second. I am stuck in a frugal HMO that will not consider SRS . It’s sad and i really dont know what i am anymore.
Oh boy–do I understand–my wife pasted last May 4—She was having Fum with my transformation –Without her Help/Encouragement & the fact that she made it fun, I’m not sure I would have Ever started down this road–She knew she was dieing –made me make 3 promises—try & keep the house/take care of the dogs & to continue down this road–but she was my rock–my sense of Safety & gave me the confidence I needed— The 3 dogs give me some comfort but not enough–& trying to keep the house on my income alone is a struggle– She was the one who could make Friends with anyone–I was just along for the ride–it’s like a fear & even panic has got me–I need some “Real Life” friends (not just online) in my life–I’m still making “Some” effort but, as you probably know–most people online are all talk & no action– Jane
same boat, but her children took the house, dogs, cats, and everything else since she didn’t finish her will and we didnt marry. could have fought it but after she died there wasnt any fight left over was fighting to live. that day i lost everything, i live in seattle, if you want a friend i understand you we share a common life event. anyway know that your not alone and i love to chat. Annie
How do you earn a living? I would be out of work in about as much time as it takes to get out of my car if I went to work “Dressed”
I do feel bad for you Annie-With me it’s about Money–just not enough of it coming in & I already work a lot of hrs–& being alone is not something I’ve done much–I think I would not be here if I did’nt have to take care of the dogs–but–If I lose the house–I lose the dogs–then it’s anyone’s guess-Right now the furnace & the air conditioner are broken but I’m not in a position to get them fixed–I am managing to hold on & taking good care of the dogs so far–Jane
i am retired now, lucky me. becoming Annie was essential to my survival. my other half passed 2 years ago, and i needed a good reason for staying, so i choose to be the person i always wanted to be, why not ? at that point i had nothing to loose and things could only get better couldnt feel any worse then without dying.so really the last time i dressed as a male she was alive, and then i was only doing that for her because i loved her with all of my heart.
Everywhere and anywhere but not always! I have been grocery shopping and to the recycling center! Just doing normal things! Yes, Lucille i am still around! Hugs Lana Mae
I’ve been out completely since November 2013 in spite of being ridiculed and receiving death threats. Although I think I pass much better now as seen here then when I started.
So me and my beautiful daughter who supports me completely went to a town town 2 hours away to Caesars in Windsor to see the Criss Angel show last night and I was completely dressed up. It was so exhilarating and I felt completely myself for the first time. It was funny the guard checking ids at the door did a double take.
That’s acutally rather intriguing that ‘over the internet’ ranks below ‘in the car’.
You go automotive femmes!
@ 1St I was a bit scared to go out in public,I felt like I didn’t pass well & felt everyone was watching me,but I quickly forced myself, & now I feel more comfortable & confident,I have been on hrt for 1 yr. 11 months & 21 days,Yayssies!!!!!. Thank U.
It’s all well and good to be able to blend in a liberal community, but in a conservative and relatively ignorant community, it presents the hazard of discrimination, hate crimes and even attack. At least the urge to cross dress isn’t that strong.