Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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For me being a woman is just being me. Thats who i am 24/7 doesn’t matter where or when , i am not pretending or wishing , i am doing. To me it’s hard in a way to do the boy thing, that would be more like pretending for me. I totally reject all maleness within me, my spirit is at peace with who and what I am. So you ask where i present myself as a woman. everywhere in this time and space. ITS easier to say where i don’t : NO WHERE and at ANYTIME
I’m full time woman, I’m at work right now
Hello, I voted Anywhere and Everywhere. I live full time totally as a woman. I have nothing male left at all and do all things as a woman does. I am happy with my life as a woman. After morning shower I do my makeup and dress as a woman, starting with panties, bra 38C I do have boobs, garter belt and hose, heels and a dress. After giving up the male life totally and becoming woman I feel that this is the way it is supposed to be.
Hi Jillian,
Nice to understand about your full time faminization.
I would like to know what do you do for your earning.
Thanks
With love
Mansvi
Hi Mansvi, I do not know if you meant me or not but I saw your message right below my post as if it was a response to mine.
You put Hi Jillian but I am Julie Lisa. That was one thing that made me wonder if it was meant for me.
To answer your question I am retired from working as a male but have had a few female jobs along the way during my life but mostly had to work as a male and be a woman on my off time. I do have retirement income plus med insurance and I am also legally married to a man that is my husband and I am his wife. Our marriage is ‘same sex’ but it is legal and we consider it a marriage between a man and a woman, I am the woman and wife. So I am a housewife now. As far as jobs I had before I was a cocktail waitress in a gay TG friendly nightclub for awhile. I had a few other jobs that I was able to work and live s female full time.
Thanx for your question,
Julie
I do exactly the same now. I live 100% as a Woman and i love it. I feel free and myself now.
HI JANE I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AS IT’S VERY HARD FOR ME AS WELL. I USED TO GO TO A FRIENDS HOUSE 2 OR 3 DECADES AGO AND THINGS WENT PAIR SHAPED WITH THEM AND THAT ENDED IT FOR ME AS MY FAMILY HAVE KIND OF DIS OWNED ME BECAUSE I I’M A CROSS DRESSER / TRANS GENDER. I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THE CONFIDENCE AND DON’T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK BUT AS I AM TOTALLY ON MY OWN IT’S VERY VERY HARD TO LET THE COMMENTS GO OVER MY HEAD
up until about last november I used to go many places dressed–but almost always with my wife-then she took ill & died about a month ago–I have’nt had the nerve to go out dressed since–I want to BUT–she made me promise Not to just give up,but by myself-I have’nt been able to-
Jane
FEEL your pain Jane, the last time i ever dressed and pretended to be male is before my spouse died. I did it for her then, sure we went out and i got to dress, but really after she died I needed a reason to live and i was reborn as Annie the person I was meant to be. Don’t give up find a reason and a friend , a person who supports and understands.
lv, Annie
Jane I am so sorry to hear about your wife. I go out dressed all the time, it is quite natural for me.
as for me started at home during time’s alone then i tried outtings wearing my feminine clothes under my male clothes til point certain people noticed but said nothing to me so than i decided mixing my clothes out in public wearing male n female clothes at sametime still pulling it off without any comments bout what I’m wearing either 50% half an half or 70/30 percent more female than male clothes and yess when have long hair I’m called miss or maam even my voice sounds feminine at time’s sorry no new pictures
I like to get out as much as i can as Aj shopping clubs and bars i have done it all i am such a lucky girl to go out when i like.
I live in South Wales and the cities are pretty good, but the area I live in is rather close minded. To think that anyone would be dressing end femme, even I’m the privacy of their own home would be a disgusting shock. It would still be talked about in fifty years time and the scandal would still be fresh in the people’s minds. It would be nice to not have to worry about things like that, but it takes a long time for change to occur. Unfortunately.