I hope 2023 is off to a great start for you!
I don’t know about you, but I love the fresh start that a new year brings…
On that note, do you have any goals or resolutions for your female self for 2023?
If so, I’d love to hear them!
Please take my poll and share your femme goals below. (Note: You can select more than one answer in the poll.)
Wishing you a fun, feminine, fabulous 2023!
Love,
Lucille
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I’m a cross dresser love panties and high heels any advice on making myself more feminine
I want to rebuild my wardrobe because I got rid of all my stuff because of my ex when we first got together I told her that I dress up in lingerie and heels and mini skirt..then a couple of months ago she flipped out calling me a fag n queer she only has seen pictures of me wearing lingerie and more.. it blew me away..now I have rebuild the wall now I will not let anyone inside my life
Hi Morgan,
I appreciate your”ardent feelings” Our journey on this planet to becoming ourselves is really challenging and frankly not well understood by the “normals” 🙂
But I am proud and happy woman regardless of what clothes or body I am wearing.
It’s just an is and the older I get I get isier,
xoxo,
Sarah
I have achieved confidence, because I believe I’m a woman, I knew it since childhood but never acted on it.I always tried to please everyone. Now I have to make myself a happy woman.
Looking to develop my body with feminine curves by doing some specific exercises at the gym.
Wow here I am some 70 years from the realization I was supposed to be a female.Being of that generation one was forced to live as one appeared, this never worked for me. Society tried to drear me, it failed. Here we are in 2022. I have already begun my resolution by totally coming out to remaining family, including daughter who knows her “dad” is trans. Lucilles’s programs have helped open my eyes to much in my quest to achieve total femininity in my life.I long ago gac\ve up the fear of going in public as myself. I do it all the time now thanks to many of Lucilles trainings. I love being a woman and I am not afraid to show it. No more hiding and seeking around at night, I live myeline as Kristine.
Kristine,
I am 64 and I would love to make the transition to become a woman. How did you tell your family? I have wanted to be female since puberty but have always been afraid of being caught dressing or especially telling someone.
Thanks
Jennifer
So many of you are well on your way to becoming fully the women you were always meant to be. I am delighted for you. My goals are more limited. I didn’t come to the full recognition of my womanhood until late in life. I am choosing to express my femininity as fully as possible while still remaining a man in most my life outwardly. I have a lovely 54 year iold marriage with my dearest wife who simply does not want to be married to a woman. I have chosen her and those limitations and I know it’s the right thing for me during this turn I’m in on the planet. It makes me sad sometimes but I know it’s wise choice for me. A mature choice for this old lady.
Love to you all,
Sarah
I’m glad that there is flexibility and acceptance within your relationships. Please forgive me for being ardent in my response. I think my past experiences fire up strong feelings and empathy for those struggling to be themselves.
Hi Sarah, Happy New Year!
I too, am no spring chicken. I wrestled with my responsibilities, obligations and commitments. Along with that, I had difficulty relating to certain terminology, such as the word “transition” because as far as I see it, I am the same person I have always been regardless of my appearance. A combination of feminine and masculine expression, impossible to separate. A person with likes, dislikes, feelings and preferences. To have to deny or hide or reject parts of ourselves to be acceptable to those we love is heartbreaking. Unfortunately, this is the situation many of us face and society doesn’t recognize the strength and courage it takes for those like us to live our lives. When I read your post, my heart sank. You’re a beautiful person, Sarah. I hope that those you love recognize that.
Dear, dear sisters,
Hi Morgan,
That was a very thoughtful and sweet note. Thank you. I am a big fan of the title of Tammy Wynette’s song, “Sometimes it’s hard to be a woman” although I suspect she never anticipated she would be speaking for a woman like me. 🙂
My good news is that i am not living in secret. My wife and i work around each other with grace and humor and many of my friends know that I identify as Sarah despite outward appearances. Each of us ladies to need to find our own way and I feel good about my life.
Love,
Sarah
Waiting for warmer weather with bated breath.
I’m going to try to get up the nerve to come out to some close friends, and book a therapist. I’ve chicked out several times even though I know it is what is best for me. I’m also going to start working on hair removal. Last year I worked on growing out my hair and that has been going great!