I hope 2024 is off to a great start for you!
I don’t know about you, but I love the fresh start that a new year brings…
On that note, do you have any goals or resolutions for your female self for 2024?
If so, I’d love to hear them!
Please take my poll and share your femme goals below. (Note: You can select more than one answer in the poll.)
Wishing you a fun, feminine, fabulous 2024!
Love,
Lucille
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happy new year ladies , wish you all the best and fun
Osheen, yer lookin’ lovely, darlin’. Osheen (Oisín) is a popular Irish male name, especially for Fionn Mac Cumhaill’s famous son. But since it simply means “Little deer”, it could easily apply to a girl. Do they also name girls Osheen where you are from?
I still need to finish electrolysis. I quit from being disappointed with my electrologist, and haven’t restarted with another. Gotta get back in that groove. Maybe Electrology 3000.
I’ve decided that this is my year. Finally, I can let go of my old life and move on. At a New Years party at my house I came out to my friends. (Not that they were very surprised, although the cross dressing part was kinda unexpected) On Jan 3rd I got my ears pierced. I’ve painted my toenails for years, but I could conceal that, but now I leave my fingernails polished. I now spend most of my time as Jennifer, I love wearing a dress and 3″ heels around the house. I feel like one of those 50s era housewives in those old commercials. For me, now, this year is it. I’ve spent my entire life hiding Jennifer, shoving her deep into the dark closet only letting her out for stolen moments. Loving her, hating her, ashamed of her, actually wishing sometimes that she would just die and leave me alone. I can’t even recall how many times I purged, only to start again. I’ve done my part, played my role, build my career to retirement, had a lifelong marriage to a wonderful woman, raised my daughter, put her thru college, and now, that’s all past. Now, it’s Jennifer’s turn, time for her to enjoy life for the years I may be blessed to have remaining. I’ve wrapped up all my major male building projects around the house, and I’ve packed up almost all my male clothes. I need the room for all of Jennifer’s clothes, OMG I love women’s clothes and heels, they’re so much fun to wear as opposed to drab male clothes. I’ve gotten down a lot of the mannerisms, I can walk in 6″ stilettos but prefer 4″, have a nice natural B cup, have slimmed down quite a bit so I’m actually getting an actual hour glass, work on my makeup, my last major hurtle, as you can imagine, is the voice. at 75, the old vocal cords aren’t very versatile, quite reluctant to change, even fight back it seems. But this year, this year, is Jennifer’s year. She has been with me, part of me, good and bad, through heaven and hell, and she will not die in the darkness of a closet.
dear Jennifer, you have said just, what I wanted to say, you did the right thing, by the way you are so sexy and feminine, wish I can do the same. well done lady
Congratujlations, GIRL! Keep on rockin’
Hi Jennifer,
I just wanted to tell you that you look absolutely amazing! I, too, grew up in the same repressive era, so your story totally resonates with me. I’ve been aware of my feelings for as long as I can remember, but while I was growing up, I never knew one person I thought felt the same way. So, there was no one to talk to, no books to read, no internet, no role models pointing the way, no resources of any kind to turn to for information. Looking back, I wonder how many of us there really were — safely hidden away, each in our own little closets. It’s such a different time and place now. I have some but not a whole lot of nostalgia for those “good ole days.”
Anyway, wishing you all the best!
Cherchez la femme!
I hope to learn more makeup skills and feminine walk and voice. Unfortunately, I have a disability that does not permit me to walk like a woman would or have a voice like a woman does. But nevertheless, I am out as far as cross-dresser to the general public, but not my family. They are very ultra conservative, and would not understand it, and I believe they would be disappointed, so I just keep this lifestyle away from them.
Yes I am going to come out to more family and friends, even though I have done a good job at that over the past few years. There are some people who I know would be uncomfortable, so i will not put them on the spot. Fortunately this does not include my wife. I came out to her three years ago and she was so understanding I don’t know why I waited so long. She told me she had noticed my mannerisms, voice etc, we’re becoming more feminine. That and the fact our physical relations were not what they used to be led her to suspect something. Since then we have transitioned from husband and wife to two girlfriends living together. We have romantic relations with two different lovely men ( we have double dated! ) . We are very happy!
I hit 75 last November, and I finally figured that I’m just not going to give a crap what anyone else thinks about me any more. I don’t have any bodd to impress, any co-workers to worry about offending, my wife has passed, my daughter is all grown and gone, grandkids are all through college, and my friends are either going to remain friends or not. If not, were they really friends anyway? But so far, everyone has been great, supportive, although a couple are a little uncomfortable, mainly because they haven’t quite figured out how to process me yet. Sometimes they call me by my male name, but more often now by Jennifer, or Jenn. My coming out seems to be as scary and confusing for them as it is for me. But I encourage questions, how they feel, here in the deep south where people were raised very conservatively it’s hard for them to understand, a lifetime of programming is hard to overcome. But people are more open today, and it’s up to us to help them overcome their fears and ignorance. I’ve found my friends love me for who I am, not what I am, and are willing to try to understand, and be there, as friends, to help me through my journey. I feel so much more free, happier, and it shows, which helps my friends want to support me. sometimes it’s just time to worry about some one else’s comfort level and start to live our lives as we are meant to.
Jugs,
Jennifer
Im so afraid of how or if i would be accepted if i came out. Ive been this way all my life, yet i still managed to create a family. But throughout the relationship I new i had another side that ive been trying to ignore. I don’t think I can ignore it anymore so frightened.
Oh, Bobbi, I’m sorry you are suffering. My advice is to find the nearest PFLAG group, and go to a meeting. You should find a great deal of support; they are wonderful! A knowledgable tnerapist might help, too. A true professional will encourage you to discover and be what you are, rather than try to talk you out of something
Dreaming of finding a good female friend who knows about the girl in me. Alsof finding a Male lover who Will accept the girl in me and gives me the chance to be female from time to time.
I want the same thing hard to find someone who you feel comfortable with a female friend would be great especially for makeup tips and tips for guys
Want to share with you my photos
you are sooo sexy and feminine