Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Love a floral perfume – it just gets me in the feminine mindset. The scent is so mesmerizing and makes me love who I am as feminine.
I have done all you listed, Lucille and I add getting a professional makeover and getting my hair styled (yes, it’s all mine ) to make me feel totally feminine! Love, Kathryn
I have to use a handicap scoter. I find I feel more female when looking at a fashion magazine when out and about. So, I carry 1 or 2 in my basket which adds to the female feelings. .
I’ll be going out to look for perfume tomorrow, sounds a great idea
Pamper yourself!!!
The main idea is how we see ourselves. You deserve the time to feel beautiful, whatever that means to you. Lotions, perfumes and bubble baths are soothing. Trying new hair, nail and make-up styles can be fun. Buying a new outfit is an expression of our individual styles, and that can really heighten our euphoria when we find something we like. Don’t be afraid to try new ideas. Thrift stores are great for this!!!
Beyond aesthetics, look within yourself and be loving. We all benefit from self-love. Showing compassion for yourself will certainly empower you to be your best. Listening to music always sets the mood.
Whatever it is, if it makes you feel more yourself, then you’re on the right track. Go at your own pace and enjoy the ride.
Abi
I’ll be looking for perfume – this is not the first blog that has recommended this…
Love,
Grace
Might sound dull, but plucking my eyebrows, same with wearing the face mask.
Perfume definitely works for me – also a beautiful smelling body butter or similar. Feminine cleansing rituals before going out – a milk or scented bath, for example – can really enhance my femininity. Other unexpected ways? Handbags can make a huge difference to the way I feel! I love the little preparation of filling or cleaning out my handbag – purse, keys, spare pantyhose, make up, vanity mirror. And I know when I put it over my shoulder that I’m really going out, not just staying in.
Great suggestion. Still learning to accessorize but adding a handbag sounds like a great solution. I love the smells of perfume but haven’t found one that washes off easily for the times for a quick dress up which seem to be the most frequent