Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Andrea L, I know that there might be a lot of us that for some reason or the other we couldn’t accomplish our dream, and I do understand your words, the only problem is that I don’t want to be just a DRAG QUEEN and that is my issue but anyways we just have to go with our secret and try not to let it get to you I cannot live hiding myself from shrinks that says ” there is something worse inside of you that you don’t let go” release it but anyways… Thanks for your words it makes me feel heard…
There was a time when I felt guilty and conflicted, but now that I’m past it – and have some perspective – I can see that it had as much to do with my sexuality as it did dressing. But it’s difficult to separate the two when you’re in the throws of it – they kinda blend together.
At this point though I’ve come to terms with all of it… accepted who and what I am. What a relief it is!
Jane
i similarly excepted myself for who i am and i don’t live by other peoples expectations. i live by my own you are your own person and i feel happy and i just ignore the negative comments and live guiltyless life
Hi Lucille,
I think the other responses cover it all. I used to have the guilt but finally realized that I wasn’t doing anything terrible and I was a good provider for my family as well as taxes for the government. Like many here I have kept it secret from my family and do feel guilty when I have to lie about where I’m going. I don’t like that but have learned to live with it.
Lucille
Oh My, feeling guilty when most of the US Congress is bought and paid for by billionaires..
Of course I feel guilt; that’s what makes me more determined as I venture out and push the envelope.
Wind underneath my butterfly wings.
BTW, since I said YES, the machine said that I should get the hypnofemme. Well, I DO have it and it is exactly what I needed to help make my reality better for me. I recommend it as a FIRST STEP.
That’s right…so put down that pencil. xoxoxo
Lucille if we meet I will hug you so hard. bless u kitten.
teri
I have been cross dressing since I was a child. Always wanted to be a girl. In elementary school I was always sent to play with the girls during sports. I guess if that were now I would request to be transgender. But it was all hush, hush back then and my life today is hush, hush for being Jill. I have 6 children and 14 grand children and would never want to hurt any of them. I still seek as much time as possible (a few hours a week at most) to be Jill. The craving sometimes is unbearable. Today I’m so wanting to be dressed and living as a girl. The feeling is so strong. It will probably be that way until October or November. This time of year my fem hormones go crazy. I’ve never looked at a beautiful girl and said, “I want her.” What I say is, “I want to be her.” I follow fem fashion from skirts, blouses, dresses, makeup, sunglasses, shoes to parkas and boots. I look much younger than my true age. Don’t smoke, drink or use drugs and attend a contemporary church weekly with my family. My life has been for everyone but me. Maybe some of us are chosen to be that way. Must leave right now. Maybe more later.
Hugs to all
Jill
I have been cross dressing since I was a child. Always wanted to be a girl. In elementary school I was always sent to play with the girls during sports. I guess if that were now I would request to be transgender. But it was all hush, hush back then and my life today is hush, hush for being Jill. I have 6 children and 14 grand children and would never want to hurt any of them. I still seek as much time as possible (a few hours a week at most) to be Jill. The craving sometimes is unbearable. Today I’m so wanting to be dressed and living as a girl. The feeling is so strong. It will probably be that way until October or November. This time of year my fem hormones go crazy. I’ve never looked at a beautiful girl and said, “I want her.” What I say is, “I want to be her.” I follow fem fashion from skirts, blouses, dresses, makeup, sunglasses, shoes to parkas and boots. I look much younger than my true age. Don’t smoke, drink or use drugs and attend a contemporary church weekly with my family. My life has been for everyone but me. Maybe some of us are chosen to be that way. Must leave right now. Maybe more later.
Hugs to all
Jill