Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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Look at indian saaree….plz try girls..
Look at indian saaree…plz try girls..
Hii girls…i am monica from india…we r so lucky that we have more options to be feminised…we girls wear saaree, salwar suits , ghaghara or lehanga..and many more…woow…have u ever tried indian women wear???…plz tryyy..u r missing the best girls…we have more feminising things to use like anklets, bangles, nosepins, mangalsutra, etc..i request u to waer indian saaree once..u would never leave it…i am a boy but always wear saaree at home..wow..its easy to wear…put bra and panty, than a longskirt called petticot and a blouse(a short shirt over breast) and than many patterns to wrap a saaree…and wedding lehangas are incredibles…its touch on ur legs will make u crazy…i have all femme wear in my wardrobe and love to live a indian girl…monica…
I always wear a skirt when feminised, as I know that would be my choice if I were a natural woman. I am not very experienced at crosddressing and this site and the contributors is the best thing that has happened to me. You are all so helpful, and I am learning so much. A fit and flare skirts and A line dresses, a good bra and B cup breastforms, black control tights and padded panties are my basics.
Lucille,
As always dear girl great advice. I also have found padded panties essential with leggings and street fashions. They give us a little extra boost in public.
Vera J.
OoooO so sexy to show a little bra!
Hugs,
Jenny D
Wow…I’ve just missed the scarf!
A woman friend recommended the Ahh Bra (by Rhonda Shear) and one day she showed me that – since she is well endowed – she was wearing TWO. Well, she stripped off one, gave it to me, and since then I’ve been sold they are so comfortable. Given my heavy DD size silicone breast forms I’ve also taken to wearing two as well, quite comfortable all day. I’ve started donating my other bras which don’t fit me nearly as well.
Hi
I am a female in a male body. It is such a distressing feeling sometimes. Just shaving my legs or hair removal on my face for example would be such huge issue given where I am in life now, I shave my body and I live in fantasy- a lot- in my head – especially to escape sorrow sometimes. It is very real.
Hi Rachel – you sound stressed by it all. I totally understand, I think we all do. I hope you are seeing a therapist? We all need that too. I understand the sorrow, the frustration. Please take care of yourself – we are born to be ourselves, and we are a magical rare creature. Best wishes.