If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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yay! thanx to this great thread wore shear tights all day! fab tip love my life….yay!xxx
I get out of my car as if I wear a dress both feet at the same time . I wear mascara , eye shadow that matches my skin tone And I wear clear nail polish
Stay Up T-High Stocking help keep so warm in the winter months
and remind me how much a female inside I am these days.
Have also put on a Victory Secret Black Water Bra that gets warmer
as you wear it longer. At the same time putting on a Black Womans camisole with the Stay Up T-Highs mmmm
Pam
mmmm love it!!!
Hi Lucille,
I just found this site. How to I keep in touch with my girl side when out and about? I always have at least one item of girl clothes on because I wear panties daily. I like to have some girly jewelry on display also, necklace, anklet, or rings. Before I cut my long hair, I wore ribbons in my pony tail.
I just got the cute super skinny jeans for Christmas. Nice and tight!
Hi I wear panties every day. I wear a bra and ladies slacks.I also use Retinol creams day and night for a beautiful skin. Lol Paula
Hello All
Yep, me too, at work I have to wear uniform, but on days off I am always androgynous or fem, even when I am supposedly presenting as a guy, I have even been mistaken for a girl when dressed as a guy several times through my life, have not taken the final step of going out made-up or wearing a skirt or dress in public yet.
But I only wear ladies jeans, trousers, tops, and jackets, I always wear feminine scents, only use ladies toiletries, and have done this for years, of course I only wear ladies underwear, nothing else is comfortable, and I always wear a bra, just for comfort to be honest, as I need the support!
And no none of this is a fetish, it just feels natural to me, I expect I will transition eventually, but no surgery for me thanks, just happy to live as a woman…
Love Jan
only thing is someone in Eastern Montana,to give me a femine makeover!
I do as others here and only wear women’s pants and slacks,shorts,shirts,tank & tees. I keep my toenails painted and wear panties and perfume instead of cologne. I also wear unisex shoes and women’s blazers and no one has noticed the reversed buttons but some have wondered about the breast darts