I’ve observed that many crossdressers and transgender women recognize their gender identity at a young age. For some, it’s an early realization, while for others, it unfolds later in life.
I’m curious about your experience…
When did you first realize you were female or had a feminine side? Was this something you felt as a child, or did it develop over time?
I’d love to hear your story! Feel free share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
I knew i was a girl at and early age when I woud try on my moms and sisters panties and bras. Then later in life when I got married the first time my wife would help me dress and buy my clothe and makeup. At night I would change into a baby doll or a night gown and we would cuddle we were married for fifteen years and had a great life, then I marred again and new about my wanting to be a girl and we would go shopping and I loved every minute of brousing through the womens clothing, she would ask if i would see anything i Liked, we had a wonderful life togeather. I am still dressing as a girl full time.
i felt like girl at 4 years old and hid it from world too 40 it was rotten life nolies and hurt alot peole from it now im a woman that always felt happy then i ever been on hrt and having srs soon within year jennifer lynn i m 90% passable i pass 9 out of ten it took work but i got girly vocie and im loiok girl allltimde
Well I realized I was a girl from about the age of 8 I used to wear my mothers corsets and dresses.I wanted to come out then but
never did I just kept it to myself ,I realize if I had then it would have been so much easier today.
I noted your question about hormones. There is a website called Laura’s Playground (which you can find via Google) offering all kinds of support for transgendered people, includinga reference to sources of counseling and medical care for those who wish to transition, by area. It’ll probably be easier to find someone if you’re near a large city, but anyway that’s the source of information I recommend.
I knew I was a girl when I was at least three years old. My parents raised me as a girl until I was 13. I’ve never thought of myself as anything but female. I was really fortunate to have loving and understanding parents.
Good Lord, you’re are a Beautiful Lady!I wish I knew you…ciao bella
I was 7 when I was wearing my sisters clothes, she was 6. Now all these years later I am starting hormones and finally becoming who I always was, no more hiding, no more lies. I am no longer broken. I am now free to express what I was always afraid to.
I recommend Dr. Peveller, that is who I used. It is all done by chat and emails. He was wonderful to talk to and really focused on stripping away those myths that we create about ourseleves by listening to others and those who really know nothing about our lives and what we go through. There is no digging into our past and pretending there is some deep rooted issues either socially or psychologically. Although for some they may exist it is not the default opinion. The background information asked is extremely thorough and the more honest and detailed you are the smoother your session go. I also very much recommend reading “The Gendered Self” by Anne Vitale. It is a book that clarifies so much that he helps you understand and for those who you come out to it is a great understanding for them too. The book was his recommendation and I sent copies to everyone I knew who would read it or at least put in an effort. The journey is not easy even getting to my point and you must be certain it is what you want, this is about you and who you see yourself as and who you want to become, not about some cure or some way to justify your actions. It is simply about YOU. Once you become honest with yourself the rest is academic.
any sugestions regarding who to see regarding hormones would be great thanx Camile
I have known since age 9! During jr & sr years in school I didn’t want the girl, I wanted to BE the girl.
Two failed marriages & a 20 plus year relationship later I couldn’t live the lie any longer. I came out
to family & friends who accepted me unconditionally. If you know it don’t wait!
I was age 4 when I realized that I was a girl. Playing boys games and wearing boys clothes felt so wrong then and now.
I first knew that I should have been a girl was at the age of ten years, I used to play with my sister and her girl frends and I loved to try on my mothers underwear though a bit on the large size for me but my sister knew and would let me wear her dress or top and skirts. I loved to be dresssed like that and be with the other girls, but my parants were in those days strong R/C I would therefore get a good hidding for doing it. But I knew that I should not be a boy I did not like to take off my top at home or school in front of other boys I do wish that in those days that things were more like today for I would have had the full sex change Op even now if I have to go as a man I get so deppresd I cannot live as a man.
Yours Amber x