There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
Take my hair removal poll below and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have gotten professionally waxed a few times and loved every minute of it. The results speak for themselves and last about 2 weeks for me. By the way, I see the same technician every time and we catch up, girl talk, about each others families while she works.
My conclusions on a home waxing kit is that they’re fine for small areas but not for large, hairy areas. I gave up and got out my razor.
I plan to go hairless later this year and will wax and then use an epilator. I’ve read about good results with that.
Wish me luck!
Linda W.
I simply adore soft fabrics against my newly waxed skin. It makes the pain worthwhile and sends my boyfriend wild.
i use veet on legs chest under arms all over in fact works well for me all be it a bit messy at times
I had 8 sessions of IPL 6 weeks apart on my beard area and it only lasted a month and then all came back
I have found that using silicone based sex lubricant helps and leaves skin silky smooth all day. Be careful though it’s slippery as hell in the shower.
I shaved my legs and a week later when my X rubbed her legs on mine in bed and felt the nubs starting to grow out, booooom ! WW-III started. My hair stylist suggested I wax my legs and when the hair grew back in it would come in soft and not scratchy. I have waxed perhaps 10 times more after that incident. Waxing in time, gets easier and easier and one time I actually dozed off while on the table. Honestly
Ladies, may I suggest 3 things if your intending to wax.
1)Plan to wax 2 to 3 days before your event and allow time for the skin to calm down.
2) Be clean when you arrive for your wax session. The waxer knows how to even that score.
3) DON’T DO IT YOURSELF THE FIRST TIME. Have it done professionally
lest you hurt, damage or worse, psyche yourself out and never try waxing again.
As a result, I have not shaved my underarms in 10 years, my legs, 3 X a year. Face ? Shave every other day.
I started out with a lot of body hair.
Best wishes
Dorothy in Tucson
hi from tom
i shave my legs under my arms and other parts of body
thanks
tom
I am a Lucky person, too. I do not have hair in my chest, back, when I shave my legs believe it or not, takes about 10 days to come out the first hair, Also I shave my face every 4th days. Under arm same story takes a week and so before start to grow some thing. I do not know why takes so long, but I do like it.:-) I have a natural long hair passing 2 or 3 inches from my shoulder. I do use Body cream from Estee Lauder
that keeps my skin smooth and smelly. Twice a week I do Exfoliating, face, legs and arms.
Cheers;
Mirela
Cheers,
Mirela